I stopped spending on most merchandise years ago as well. Yes, we would spend more if their was a greater selection of options and the quality was better. WDW seems to be catering to the "one and done" customer.
That's another thing. Disney merchandise use to have some really cool, higher dollar stuff. I remember going to the Disney Stores in the malls and seeing just a bunch of neat things in the windows and in the front section on either side. That was the 1990s.
Sometime in the late 1990s they got away from the fancier/more interesting things and just the Disney Stores turned into just plush, T-shirts, and junk. It's what the Emporium is on Main St.
The only thing that is of interest to me, now, is the stuff in Art of Disney at the parks. A lot of those paintings are cool and they have some miniatures which are pretty neat. That's about it, though. While I like to look at them, after a painting or two that's pretty much it on buying.
When you think about what they're claiming is their target guests, the upper-class, and then you look at what they're offering:
- expensive T-shirt, plush, and junk in their stores/parks
- very expensive sub-par meals
- cuts in service/hours/staff so things don't look as great as they once did
It doesn't really add up. If you're going for the upper end, they'll pay, but they expect high quality products and service and expect to be catered to. Also, of the ones I've known, they're not the kind that like to be nickeled and dimed.