I'm not your sister. I know this because I don't have a brother. And I only surf occasionally with a native Hawaiian, we aren't married.
The SoCal-Hawaii (Hawai'i) connection is a strong one. SoCal'ers vacation there in droves, Hawaiians love to come to OC and San Diego on vacation, and we get each others scene and culture. It's something that someone living in Virginia or Illinois or Massachussetts wouldn't understand, and if you've never been to Hawaii you probably just think it's grass huts and Don Ho sing-a-longs and luau dinner parties. It's not, it's a unique culture and way of life that has nothing to do with the Brady Bunch.
I imagine a lot of East Coasters and Midwesterners here had no idea there is a growing political/cultural movement in Hawaii to declare independence from the USA.
Surprise! And a lot of folks there, even if they may not feel strongly enough to leave the union at this point for economic and geopolitical reasons, wish their grandparents hadn't agreed to become the 50th state.
Disney, for their part with Aulani, has tip-toed into this brewing socio-political environment with great care; thus the liberal application of local culture, religion, art and etiquette into the design and operation of Aulani. Disney doesn't go to all that trouble in Hilton Head or Vero Beach, that's for sure. They had to in Hawaii, to gain street cred with the locals and not be seen as carpetbaggers from the mainland like the other big hotel chains are now seen as.