i agree this is a major issue! i actually used the F word during exit last time. please forgive me if any of your children were around. i've probably used it three times in my life- and i'm 53 !!! i was absolutely nuts out of my head with heat/stress/crowds/changing plans--let's try for the ferry-- no look at that line--let's try the monorail- no look at that line-- let's try a bus--are you nuts? look at those lines. after being in fourth line attempt to exit, then the CMs made us leave regular monorail line and get in the resort monorail line, then change back again..........i lost it.
bottom line, while NOT hanging back any to allow crowds to exit, we were caught in crowds of folks, when we finally made a monorail after being directed all over by CMs- and lots of people still in line behind us- they kept announcing that THIS WAS THE LAST MONORAIL OF THE NIGHT!!
we kept wondering what would happen to all the folks still in line.
if we had waited for everyone to leave, as sounds like a good idea, i guarantee you there would be no monorails out....don't know how late the ferry runs.
just a horrible situation.
however, i have no easy answers other than filling in the lake and not having to take a monorail or ferry. i know this was Walt's special dream, leave the world behind etc, so i understand why it is still there. but imagineers come up with lots of cool stuff, how 'bout something to get us out of there at night?