Is K your daughter or hers? Was she saying that if her daughter couldn't do the skill, no one could? Or was she pointing out that your daughter missed the skill and assumed that her missing it one time meant that she couldn't do it at all? Either way,




. DS used to have a classmate whose mom drove me nuts. She was always putting me down while trying to make herself out to be perfect. She'd say "I noticed A doesn't have a large vocabulary.....you should have him hang out with Tim. Tim has a very extensive vocabulary and can teach A a lot." or "Yes, I spoke English with A because I know he's bilingual and I speak English really well. A probably felt comfortable speaking to me in English because I'm very open with kids, and they sense that about me. People are always telling me their kid opened up to me, even when they don't usually open to people they don't know well." Or "I don't understand why Tim wasn't allowed to skip a grade. I know he missed the cut off with his birthday, but he's very bright and they should have made an exception for him." (A was a year younger than Tim, and had been allowed to move up with Tim's class because his birthday was in December and the cut off was the end of December. So he made the cut off, and if Tim had made the cut off, he would have been a year ahead of A, and she was upset that A was allowed to move up a grade when Tim wasn't.) She's also the one I'm sure I mentioned once that I watched him one afternoon and he ran off on me and ran into the street without looking, and she thought it was so cute and said "Yes, he's very independent! He walked out the other day and walked to school by himself without even telling me! I was looking all over the house for him and finally went to check the school and there he was!" and she thought that showed that he was wise beyond his years. There are just parents out there who I guess think that they need to prove they are better parents and so they have to promote their own children and try to make everyone else look bad in comparison.