Because the fact that I'm a practicing homosexual is merely one facet of my humanity. It does not define me, and I would never let it. It's merely one facet of a beautiful gem!
I liken it to Motown. The artists at Motown, particularly the ladies, were some of the most talented artists this great nation has ever produced. And probably ever will produce. In the 1960's they helped change American society and the world during a tumultuous time. But they did it with class and grace; they never got overtly political or offensive.
When the first big gay romcom came along, I would have loved it to be stylish and classy. Bros was crass and obscene. And then the stars of Bros went on Twitter rampages calling anyone who doesn't spend money on the movie a bigot and bad person. That was not a good look, and showed no class! I was embarrassed for them.
So I chuckled when it all backfired, and the vast majority of even 2SLGBTQQIA+ stayed away from that movie.
Go in with class and style and some smarts, and you can change the world and make new friends along the way!