STR8FAN2005 said:
I don't really try at all because I'm that clueless. The fear of rejection, and not knowing what to do is hard to overcome.
I'll give you my advice for that one since we are both around the same age and both in college.
I know it's hard, but you are just going to have to get the guts up to ask us girls out. (Trust me, I've asked out quite a few guys back in high school and got turned down by all of them. It wasn't fun, but you learn from it and move on.)
We are not all that hard to talk to. Pretty girls are just like everyone else. If you just strike up a conversation with us and then lead that into asking us out, you might have a shot. (Of course, this is usually easier if you aren't friends with the girl you are trying to ask out...that brings up a whole other can of worms. 2. I wasn't trying to be all high and mighty and call myself a pretty girl....didn't want to seem like a brat. :lol:
You could always try the trick that my fiance used. Go to a country line dancing bar (yep...seriously where what's his face met me) run into the girl, then get her off to the side, buy her a drink and just start chatting. Then if the conversation goes well, get her number. Then call her in like a day or so. (Don't call too soon or we think you're a little crazy...although what's his face called the next day and by the time I got a hold of him, we set up a date for the same night. The Rules be darned!)
I know it's hard to find the right person...but trust me, she's out there. Here's some great advice from someone who's only dated a total of like 3-4 people in her life...I'm not really sure how many it actually is, there were a few who I'm not sure if I went out with or not...
don't look for Ms. Right...enjoy casually dating...you don't need to find THE ONE right away...Ms. Right will show up when it's time.
When I met what's his face, I was NOT looking for him. Matter fact, dating someone serious like this was the furthest thing from my mind. I had JUST broken up with someone and I realized that I just wanted to casually date. Little did I know that casually dating someone would turn into being THE ONE.
So trust me, when it's time...she'll show up...enjoy dating while you can. Cause once it's gone, it's gone. (Wow...I sound kind of cynical there! :lol: )