I’ve noticed that too. Roughly only in the last five years or so. And it’s accelerating. There were virtually none a decade ago.
Says something….
And it's everywhere. I don't participate in other Disney forums, but I do browse here and there, Reddit, etc. and this isn't just your standard churn. And although I don't do much social media, the only people who I do see that I personally know on social media that still are going are the ones who are "travel planners" who are getting comp'd left and right.
I can speak for myself - they priced me out awhile ago. At least WDW did, Disneyland at least is still manageable. But obviously, I'm still here - so I every so often entertain the idea of "to heck with it, I'll pay their stupid prices"...but then - I realize that even if I gave in on the money part, WDW still isn't a very pleasant place any more to be in my eyes.
Reading the OP here, personally Magical Express part doesn't bother me (I haven't been without my own car, even on property, for well over a dozen years, I want my flexibility), but everything else said really resonated. WDW has just become too restrictive and complex for me to actually have fun.
The fact that I can't just pay one price for a park hopper ticket to be able to go where I want, when I want, is a total dealbreaker. I'm the type that I wouldn't know what to do for a full day in a single park. I want to rope drop the MK, do my favorite rides - head over to AK for lunch and a spin on Dinosaur, then head over to MGM or Epcot for the nighttime show.
It was one thing back when it was just about booking restaurants three or even six months out. I'm one of those people who loved to plan, but also realized - plans are a guideline, sticking to them on a military schedule was never a good idea - the best planners know how to take advantage of whatever situation is going on at the moment, and are able to "plan" on the go. Sure, you labor over itineraries because it used to be
fun - not required, and you weren't beholden to it. So you make your one reservation of the day for a sit-down meal, and just work around it.
But now? Park reservations? It's just crazy. I can almost see it if it is your "once in a lifetime" trip, but as someone who has spent months worth of days in my life at the parks - it is just so completely unappealing to me. I would feel like I was wasting my money. I want to go where I want, when I want. I would feel like it was a severely truncated experience.
And now, when you factor in all the other stuff - that I could write an essay about, but it's all so awful I don't even want to go there - the Genie + /pay per ride stuff, the decimation of entertainment, and so on...
...Let's just put it this way. If you had told me ten, even five years ago that the magic would have gone like this for me - I never would have believed it. I imagined I would be an AP holder until I die. And it has nothing to do with me falling out of love with the parks themselves - it is everything crappy around them that Disney has insisted on doing with them that has sucked all the fun out of visiting them, at the same time they have upped the pricing so high that it's cheaper to spend a week in pretty much any location in the world other than WDW.