I agree that there are some experiences in your life that leave an indelible memory. I was actually right here when I heard about it, and quite frankly, like most posters, when I saw the thread title I opened it assuming that it would be a complaint or vent about something. I wish that had been the case.
I immediately turned on the TV, but continued posting, as my children were in school, my husband at work, and my neighbors weren't up yet.
I'm also thankful that some of our greatest fears weren't realized, but few of us foresaw some of the more subtle, long term problems and changes this would cause.
I hope that this thread will not become political, and that we can all reflect and mourn in a nonpolitical, nonreligious, non ethnic way. Thank you.