Yeah, I've seen different things about code words, or other ways to let the bartender know you don't feel safe. And I read somewhere about bathrooms having posters up with a number to call and someone will escort you to your car. I'm not sure any of it would have helped in this case, just because the guy wasn't deterred by the 2 girls who followed her out. He just attacked them, too. It's just so sad and scary. She did everything right. She didn't accept drinks from him, she was polite and didn't do anything to make him angry, nor did she lead him on. I don't know what more she could have done. I feel like him giving her his wallet and going to the bathroom was a ploy all along, because she wasn't accepting drinks from him. He probably knew she wasn't going to order drinks like he told her to. I think it was just so he could accuse her of stealing, and he made a scene just to get kicked out so she would be alone. And if that WAS his plan, it probably wasn't the first time he's done this. I just can't believe the bar employees didn't see it. They must be used to seeing guys hitting on girls who aren't receptive...why wouldn't they keep an eye on that kind of a thing. Wouldn't alarm bells be going off in your head if you saw a girl refusing drinks from a guy the whole night and suddenly he's accusing her of stealing? If I saw that, I'd be going to the girl, asking if she was ok and if she needed anything. And I'd probably be telling the guy to call the police if he thought someone stole from him. It just seems like an obvious ploy to me.