The team that has nothing to do with Taylor SwiftI got both my predictions. The problem now is who to cheer on during the Super Bowel. Yea, I know what I said!
The team that has nothing to do with Taylor SwiftI got both my predictions. The problem now is who to cheer on during the Super Bowel. Yea, I know what I said!
The team that has nothing to do with Taylor Swift
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Yeah, I've seen different things about code words, or other ways to let the bartender know you don't feel safe. And I read somewhere about bathrooms having posters up with a number to call and someone will escort you to your car. I'm not sure any of it would have helped in this case, just because the guy wasn't deterred by the 2 girls who followed her out. He just attacked them, too. It's just so sad and scary. She did everything right. She didn't accept drinks from him, she was polite and didn't do anything to make him angry, nor did she lead him on. I don't know what more she could have done. I feel like him giving her his wallet and going to the bathroom was a ploy all along, because she wasn't accepting drinks from him. He probably knew she wasn't going to order drinks like he told her to. I think it was just so he could accuse her of stealing, and he made a scene just to get kicked out so she would be alone. And if that WAS his plan, it probably wasn't the first time he's done this. I just can't believe the bar employees didn't see it. They must be used to seeing guys hitting on girls who aren't receptive...why wouldn't they keep an eye on that kind of a thing. Wouldn't alarm bells be going off in your head if you saw a girl refusing drinks from a guy the whole night and suddenly he's accusing her of stealing? If I saw that, I'd be going to the girl, asking if she was ok and if she needed anything. And I'd probably be telling the guy to call the police if he thought someone stole from him. It just seems like an obvious ploy to me.So sorry to read this - I hope she recovers both emotionally and physically. I know that here there is a particular “drink” women can order at a bar which is code for them feeling unsafe/harassed by another customer and the bar makes sure she can get home safely.
What is the drinking age there? It used to be 16 here for beer and wine, but they changed it to 18 a few years ago. But E isn't into alcohol anyway. She and her friends generally don't go to bars. They go to one of the friend group's house and watch movies or play games, and they all bring some sort of snack to share. There parties revolve mostly around food, though there usually is alcohol there now that most of them are 18. E said at one of the last "parties" they had...maybe Halloween? one of the guys who is the biggest drinker went around to each one of the kids who DIDN'T drink and asked them why they don't. Not to be a jerk or anything. He was just curious. And when they answered, he'd just say "Oh, that's cool." and that was it. He actually had two birthday parties. One with alcohol for his drinking friends and one without for those who don't drink. The last few parties have been at Dimphy's house, and she only lives on the next street over, but her friends won't let her walk home alone, even for that one block. They always have a whole group to escort her, and one of the guys is like a Dutch champion in karate or something and he has done all sorts of survival trainings, so he can kick some tail if anything happened. Now that she's at University, I worry a bit more, because she goes by bus and train and there are some weird sorts sometimes.Not sure that is the name here but it does remind me that I should make sure my daughter knows (though bars here being really expensive most young adults drink in parks or at home hanging out with friends)
Thank you. This happened in Wyoming, so it's in the US. This girl is the daughter of one of the women who was in choir with me at college. Her dad worked with my husband and me at Walmart when we lived there. As a mother, that's probably one of my worst nightmares. And my friend said that she couldn't get there, because she lives in Cheyenne and this happened in Laramie, and it had just stormed and the roads were closed. So she ended up having to call a friend who lives in Laramie at 2 in the morning and asking her to go to the hospital to be with Em, because she couldn't get there. I can't even imagine how that felt....to not be able to get to your child who is in the hospital. Horrifying.Wow. That is sooo freakin’ messed up on so many levels, that I don’t even really know where to begin.
So, off the top of my head, I’ll just leave it at the below…
If something similar happened to one of the women or young ladies in my life, I’m not exactly sure how I would handle the shear rage I would be experiencing.
I’m not totally sure how the justice system works in your country, but if that sack of excrement isn’t locked up for a very, very long time they’re doing it wrong.
Finally, and most importantly, I hope and pray that your friends daughter, and the other two young ladies, recover both physically and emotionally as well as possible, and never have to go through anything like that ever again.
All the prayers the world can spare for all of them.
What is the drinking age there? It used to be 16 here for beer and wine, but they changed it to 18 a few years ago. But E isn't into alcohol anyway. She and her friends generally don't go to bars. They go to one of the friend group's house and watch movies or play games, and they all bring some sort of snack to share. There parties revolve mostly around food, though there usually is alcohol there now that most of them are 18. E said at one of the last "parties" they had...maybe Halloween? one of the guys who is the biggest drinker went around to each one of the kids who DIDN'T drink and asked them why they don't. Not to be a jerk or anything. He was just curious. And when they answered, he'd just say "Oh, that's cool." and that was it. He actually had two birthday parties. One with alcohol for his drinking friends and one without for those who don't drink. The last few parties have been at Dimphy's house, and she only lives on the next street over, but her friends won't let her walk home alone, even for that one block. They always have a whole group to escort her, and one of the guys is like a Dutch champion in karate or something and he has done all sorts of survival trainings, so he can kick some tail if anything happened. Now that she's at University, I worry a bit more, because she goes by bus and train and there are some weird sorts sometimes.
Sometimes I think my daughter has never actually been a teen. She never went through a rebellious stage, or the "I hate you" stage. We've always been super close. She likes to smell the drinks, but she's not really a taster. Her friends laugh because she always asks if she can smell their drinks, but she never wants to taste them. She likes a tiny bit of baileys in her hot chocolate, but if there's too much, she doesn't like it. I've always preferred weak drinks, too.It is still 16 for beer and wine, 18 for other alcohol. That being said, one of the two main grocery chains will not sell beer and wine to under 18 yo (the other one technically doesn’t sell alcohol at all … but owns another store that does and is always conveniently located next to it. I am not sure what their policy is). My daughter drank more when she was a younger teen (15-17) and I was always very nervous about it. Now it is an occasional beer or when she is at a family gathering with her BF, but since he stays sober when they are out I worry less.
Nope -- I was out hiking in the snow-packed woods in a conservation area, at the time it hit the ocean -- up in the York, Maine area. Heard that some people down the coast, a few as far as PA felt "something" -- nothing dramatic as it was fairly low (final figure was 3.8) on the Rickter Scale.
I'll be hoping the Eagles win, but I would prefer if both teams lose. I was very much hoping for a Commanders/Bills Super Bowl, and did not get any part of my wish.
Unfortunately, Taylor Swift has a "house" in my state so we have to hear of her regardless of American football
She a non-thing in my mind. I don't care who she is having "relations" with ever. But I do like the team, but I also like the other team so it is a dilemma of the first degree. It won't be long before she writes another song about her breakup with him. It's overdue even now.The team that has nothing to do with Taylor Swift
Yeah, I've seen different things about code words, or other ways to let the bartender know you don't feel safe. And I read somewhere about bathrooms having posters up with a number to call and someone will escort you to your car. I'm not sure any of it would have helped in this case, just because the guy wasn't deterred by the 2 girls who followed her out. He just attacked them, too. It's just so sad and scary. She did everything right. She didn't accept drinks from him, she was polite and didn't do anything to make him angry, nor did she lead him on. I don't know what more she could have done. I feel like him giving her his wallet and going to the bathroom was a ploy all along, because she wasn't accepting drinks from him. He probably knew she wasn't going to order drinks like he told her to. I think it was just so he could accuse her of stealing, and he made a scene just to get kicked out so she would be alone. And if that WAS his plan, it probably wasn't the first time he's done this. I just can't believe the bar employees didn't see it. They must be used to seeing guys hitting on girls who aren't receptive...why wouldn't they keep an eye on that kind of a thing. Wouldn't alarm bells be going off in your head if you saw a girl refusing drinks from a guy the whole night and suddenly he's accusing her of stealing? If I saw that, I'd be going to the girl, asking if she was ok and if she needed anything. And I'd probably be telling the guy to call the police if he thought someone stole from him. It just seems like an obvious ploy to me.
Thank you. This happened in Wyoming, so it's in the US. This girl is the daughter of one of the women who was in choir with me at college. Her dad worked with my husband and me at Walmart when we lived there. As a mother, that's probably one of my worst nightmares. And my friend said that she couldn't get there, because she lives in Cheyenne and this happened in Laramie, and it had just stormed and the roads were closed. So she ended up having to call a friend who lives in Laramie at 2 in the morning and asking her to go to the hospital to be with Em, because she couldn't get there. I can't even imagine how that felt....to not be able to get to your child who is in the hospital. Horrifying.
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