It is always risky being an elderly person with or without Covid 19. Long term care can be called the next step is your last location. Not that it is good that they die. I'm a couple of steps away from that myself, but it shouldn't be surprising since the older we get the weaker we get in every way included our immune system. What's the military going to do, shoot the virus? Set up a road block and stop every car and see if there happens to be a virus in the trunk? Without the proper testing available there is no real defense. Young and healthy may be a sickness that no one wants, but the odds are they will survive. The elderly are very aware that they are close to the big one and to make them be separated from the people they love, is as cruel as the illness. You should be able to understand what I am saying, let's say that what happened to your Dad were to be right now and you couldn't get to see him, comfort him and spend whatever time you could with someone that you love. It makes no sense, they are already terminally ill, you can't make them sicker by being there, but not being there can make their last days a lot more scary and unpleasant. That is the only real upset I have with how we are trying to do the impossible and by doing something that is only good for ourselves. How many times, when you kids were little, you went in to take care of them without any real thought about whether or not you would catch whatever they had. And if you did think about it would you have just left them in their room, door closed, with no one seeming to care about them. How would they ever get better when there was no one to give them the strength.
Me, I am angry, I cannot see my family. Everyday that goes by I get one day closer to that final one. I'm willing to take a chance so I can spend some time with my family, but that apparently makes me stupid or evil. These are days that I will never get back again. Once they go by they are gone forever. I'm well over 65 and have COPD plus other odds and ends. I am in the most likely to get the terminal version group. I will wait it out, but I know where my anger is directed and if I survive this, which btw I think I will, then I am going to do everything in my power, limited as it might be, to make those responsible for lack of preparation accountable for their lack of intelligence or caring.