whiterosered
New Member
My reason for being a disney geek is going to be a major buzz kill but here goes.
Growing up, my biological father was constantly in and out of my life. With my mom, I had it great. She divorced my biological father when I was two and married my step-dad when I was four, so the life I've lived now really is the only life I've ever had and ever remember. I was raised by two people who loved each other and both loved me. God blessed me with a hero for a mom and a man who never had to be my dad, but stepped up to the plate and gladly loved me as if I was his own and I was always be greatful for that. Things with my biological father were never that great. He was consistently gone and when he was there, I didn't want him there. He was (and is) an alcoholic. He was (and is) a drug addict. While he never raised a hand to me, he was emotionally abusive which, for me, was just as bad.
As a child (and to this day) Disney was my escape. When I was with my biological father and didn't want to be, or was just hurting because of the way he is in general, I could watch a Disney movie or turn on the Disney channel and completely forget about the pain he had caused me.
Specfically, I became obsessed with Disney World the summer I turned 19 when I decided I was done with my biological father once and for all, was completely kicking him out of my life and was changing my last name to my step-father's name. My two best friends and I went to wdw for a week not too long after I made this decision. For the entire time I was there, I was able to just have a good time and completely forget about my pain. It was a release and a much needed escape all in one.
I've been in love with wdw ever since. I don't want anyone out there thinking I've had a terrible life. As I've said, life with my mom was great. But ever since I was a kid, any time I have needed an escape from the drama with my biological father, Disney was there for me.
Thanks, Disney. :wave:
Growing up, my biological father was constantly in and out of my life. With my mom, I had it great. She divorced my biological father when I was two and married my step-dad when I was four, so the life I've lived now really is the only life I've ever had and ever remember. I was raised by two people who loved each other and both loved me. God blessed me with a hero for a mom and a man who never had to be my dad, but stepped up to the plate and gladly loved me as if I was his own and I was always be greatful for that. Things with my biological father were never that great. He was consistently gone and when he was there, I didn't want him there. He was (and is) an alcoholic. He was (and is) a drug addict. While he never raised a hand to me, he was emotionally abusive which, for me, was just as bad.
As a child (and to this day) Disney was my escape. When I was with my biological father and didn't want to be, or was just hurting because of the way he is in general, I could watch a Disney movie or turn on the Disney channel and completely forget about the pain he had caused me.
Specfically, I became obsessed with Disney World the summer I turned 19 when I decided I was done with my biological father once and for all, was completely kicking him out of my life and was changing my last name to my step-father's name. My two best friends and I went to wdw for a week not too long after I made this decision. For the entire time I was there, I was able to just have a good time and completely forget about my pain. It was a release and a much needed escape all in one.
I've been in love with wdw ever since. I don't want anyone out there thinking I've had a terrible life. As I've said, life with my mom was great. But ever since I was a kid, any time I have needed an escape from the drama with my biological father, Disney was there for me.
Thanks, Disney. :wave: