I've been fortunate to stay at all the resorts except for Art of Animation (which I have visited).
Earlier this year we stayed at Coronado Springs Resort (CSR). (Our previous stay was over a decade ago.) The resort and rooms are pleasant, definitely a step up from the Value Resorts. CSR has one of the nicer pools, oversized and relaxing:
When we were there, the rooms were being refurbished. The updated rooms are nice:
The downside is that there is major construction going on at CSR at the moment. The construction is off to one side of the hotel. The lobby, food court, and pools are open and unaffected.
Young children tend to like the bright colors and oversized displays at the Value Resorts. Lots of kids, lots of noise, lots of excitement.
Understandably, your husband might enjoy the Values considerably less than your children. Lines for the bus and food court can be long. Guests can be noisy coming back from the theme parks late in the evening. The rooms are small, a tight fit for 2 adults and 2 children.
Ultimately, a WDW hotel is a place to sleep, shower, and swim. You can do that at any WDW hotel. How important your comfort is while doing these things is a matter of personal preference. I certainly have my favorite Disney hotels and, having been to the theme parks many times, prefer to spend more time relaxing at the hotel.
Ask yourself a question: What's the price difference between hotels, and would you and your husband rather spend that money on something else?