Disney only relented until the issue was escalated. If the issue wasn't pushed no proactive accommodation would have been made on Disneys part.
I thought you left this thread 2 times already. Third time the charm?
I think that the underlying problem is that Disney has used up all of it's trust which people, at one time, had with them in the pursuit of a buck.
This, at it's core, has to do with the cutting of services along with the endless up-charge events of the last year or so. Take that away and this could easily be understood to be some kind of mistake. Still, the Disney of the past would have had the attitude of, "Oh, crap, we really screwed up! How can we make this right/fix it??" The current Disney has the attitude of, "Yeah, you paid in advance but we found a group that'd pay more so SUX2BU!," and only after pressuring do they even try to accommodate you.
It tells me that, at any time, Disney can, and will, pull the rug out from under you because they think that they've found a group of people who'd pay more for some time or event. So, maybe they close the park earlier than they otherwise would have or maybe they just cancel your already paid for reservations. The important thing, to Disney, is that they can cut some other guest's experience short and resell it at a higher price to another guest.
The guest experience no longer matters. They're interested in the $500/head folks, not the $130/head folks (or whatever it is these days to eat at CRT). It really sends the message of, "We don't care if you've been coming here all of your lives and watched every movie 10 times, you're no longer good enough. These people over here are better."
You can argue, "But it's a business!" Yeah, it is. Everyone gets that. People get that they may be priced out of something like WDW because they don't earn enough and it's become too expensive. The difference is that it used to be that if you were on site, got in the gate, made reservations, you were treated like a guest. Everyone was a guest. They would do what it took to make sure you felt like a guest. Now they have "better guests" which trump the guests already through the gate or already with reservations.
That's how Disney is today. If you want to be treated better than cough up $500/head or $whatever/head for some special event (dessert party).
The pixie-dusters will still pay to enter and say things like, "Well, that's OK.. I don't HAVE to eat at CRT," and still give Disney their money and Disney will still take it. You're mostly "guest filler" now, though.