I wasn’t saying it’s an excuse. I was actually explaining why I’m not surprised an autistic person with an ego the size of Texas and billions of dollars would repeatedly say stupid and socially inept things. As someone with autism and unlikely to have that degree of money and narcissism, it’s probably safe to say that you wouldn’t behave like him because you know it is inherently wrong and that it is obviously not appropriate in any situation. Now think about him growing up, being told he’s a genius, never having to worry about getting along with a boss or coworkers and being able to get everything he could ever want due to massive inherited wealth… that kind of person isn’t going to have any clue how their words are going to impact others… and they aren’t going to care.
As such, he should be admonished. The narcissism is treatable, the autism and social skills less so at this point.
I am quite literally an expert on this subject. I diagnose and do neuropsychological testing as a living and perform social rehabilitation therapy for autistic kids… or at least did before I moved on to treating veterans.