Hi folks,
I would like to introduce myself - I am Tracey, Rich's daughter. While I've been a member on here for a while, I've never been active, other than some occasional reading and perusing through pictures. I stumbled upon this thread, and so I could not resist saying hello, but more than that, thank you.
I know how much my dad truly loved this forum and its members, with whom he managed to share distant yet significant relationships through the mutual love of Disney. Disney is an integral part of our family's life, and chatting with you all has kept the passion alive for our family between trips.
We all know that my dad loved to chat, and complain, and offer his blunt opinion with any chance he would get, and so I thank you for engaging him. I know he loved the dialogues he would have with all of you; it was a great hobby of his, especially since he has always loved interacting with people.
As you can imagine, the past couple months have been pure hell for my mother and me. We feel robbed; my parents have been together since age 16, best friends and partners for almost a half of a century, and so the void in her life is immense. I, only 19, have to now face the good and bad of life without the man who was my inspiration and ideal of strength. I cannot yet comprehend he is gone, and I miss him more than I would have ever conceived. The only things that can begin to ease our pain is finally realizing how much of him truly lives on in me, seeing the incredible impact he had on each life he touched, and seeing those who loved him reach out.
It is cliche to say, but you truly can never appreciate something until it is gone. Children always take their parents for granted; it's their job to always be there, so why should we ever think to thank them, or even reflect for ourselves on their gifts to us? Only since his passing have I come to realize the deep love and pride he possessed for me and my mother. While I may have never said "thank you," I am confident he knew and knows just how much I love him. Especially in our youth, we may primarily focus on the disciplinarian side of our parents - those things he wouldn't let me do, or those high standards he would set for me. Rarely do we ever realize that HE is one of those reasons I can do what I do, why my talents are what they are, and why my goals and aspirations are lofty and hopeful. I was able to make it through these past two months, growing and learning, because of his strength. It's just something I think people should consider; realize why you are the way you are, and who helped make you that way.
Again, I would like to thank you for bringing joy to my father's life, engaging him in intellectual or ridiculous dialogue, and realizing the amazing person that he will always be.