I'd argue (cause you know I live to!) that Disney doesn't have the folks who want to just go and enjoy and relax (again, many would argue that's enjoying the parks in the way they were intended) covered at all ...
Look at their track record:
Dining: You aren't a resort guest? You don't know where you want to dine months, weeks or even days in advance? You're a local who wants to show up and doesn't mind waiting for a table? Guess what? You're screwed because Disney has either booked up your top 5 dining choices and/or understaffed so they can't/won't accept walkins. Oh, and in order to make the DDP more a value to those resort guests, they've raised their price points ridiculously high to again hurt the locals.
Fastpass: You don't want to get up at 6 a.m. while on 'vacation'? You want to get to a park (GASP!) in the afternoon? Well, that means you get to wait in a line that's longer than would be sans FP. And Disney can also cut ride capacity and labor because guests have those FP 'ressies' for their rides to begin with.
Park hours and entertainment: Disney wants to make resort guests happy, especially when they are staying at least a week. So, everything is tailored around what parks will have EMH and you have less entertainment scheduled ... why show Fantasmic nightly when you can save huge amounts of money by showing it four times a week on two nights (think they're Wednesdays and Sundays now)? So what if you can't get to the park on one of those nights? So what if it's a 'once in a lifetime' visit and the Studios are closed at 7 p.m. on a weekend night?
Disney shouldn't be something you have to plan like doing your taxes ... and that's literally what it's coming to while they're trying to spin it that it's to improve the guest experience.
Worse, it IS based on one basic FACT: the biggest complaint guests have at WDW (and have had for as far back as this Spirit can recall) is 'waiting/not having enough time to see and do it all' ... people have always had this issue, but now Disney feels like it needs to stimulate guests all the time. Some of it is certainly true. I was in perhaps a 15-minute (if that) wait for PoC last week and there in the queue are people playing with their iPhones ... nothing quite takes you out of preparing to sack the town and find Captain Jack as seeing some moron updating their FB status in the queue. I don't think Disney should be pandering to this type of person, but that's exactly what they are doing with these 'interactive' queues.
I also think it's much worse at WDW (naturally) because there's so much to see and do (albeit spread out over 43 square miles) and the cost, which makes people all the more grumpy and pushy.
People seem much more relaxed and just happy to be there at the other Disney resorts (even Anaheim) than WDW.
If your vacation is becoming work, then maybe there's something wrong to begin with.