Yeah, it really stinks. There are no light crowd periods anymore. You are lucky to get a day or two of light crowds here and there.. Instead the parks are always packed. Magic Kingdom this last Saturday could have been Christmas week for how packed it was.
The days of just going and doing whatever you want and enjoying yourself are long gone. It's not even the same place it was 10 years ago. That said, I still find ways to squeeze out magical moments of what is still there.
This is why I loved to spend time at a deluxe resort. Before I was all about the parks, but now I just laze around for longer periods of my resort and enjoy its amenities. If given a choice to go to a value resort just to get to WDW, I'd wait until I can go with the deluxe.
The only thing is that the days of lighter crowds on deluxe resort buses have gotten heavier when before I could count on being the only one on the bus. This isn't a problem unless it's a rainy day and a lot of wet folks are dripping on me.