The Chit Chat Chit Chat Thread

HEY!!! I resemble that remark. And get off my lawn.

I remember the advancement of technology in things as basic as music. When I was young, radio's were AM only and all "record players" were mono and still had the 78 speed choice on them. Then we got transistor radio's that you could carry with you. The sound was awful, but, it was so cool to have one. Stereo recordings started to be sold and radio's went to a choice of AM or FM Stereo's TV's were small screened at first, and remained relatively small even though home TV's were packaged in designer cabinets about the size of a small car. (TV repair people actually came to your house to replace a vacuum tube in a broken TV, which was a regular occurrence.) Then Color TV came out. Those required constant color adjusting but still ended up with different shades of green faces of the people. Now I have a 50 inch HD TV with a picture that is as clear as reality.

Cars upgraded to AM/FM radio's but, not usually stereo. Then someone invented the "boom box", that had AM/FM and in stereo as well as much more powerful and better sound. Compared to today's, they sucked. I should add that they had the ability to play 8 tract and cassette in that order. Heck my first car player that I bought when I was on RR in Japan, played both in the same slot. A very clever design that when you put an 8 track in the cassette player collapsed to allow the bigger thing to be put in and vise versa when you wanted to play a cassette. It was an incredible design but, was a victim of it's own cleverness. To many moving parts so it didn't take to long to fall apart.

After that things happened way to fast to keep up with. Beta and VCR's came out for home viewing. Cars now had a slot in the radio face for an 8 track tape with recorded music in a big loop. That didn't last long before cassettes were used and had much more convenience and better sound. Cars then switched to the cassette player. 8 tracks were officially dead and even cassettes started to feel threatened by a new kid in town called a CD. If you owned a car with a cassette player, you could buy a CD player that had a plug in for the car that looked exactly like a cassette. Don't know how it worked, but, it was quite good. But talk about distractions when you tried to change the CD in the player (battery operated) that was sitting on the "Bench seat" next to you.

As little as 2 or so years ago, almost all cars came equipped with CD players built into the radio. My Cadillac had a 6 CD stacker/player that was so great since you could load up the cartridge and play six albums without having to change them. Changing them did require stopping because the holder/player was in the glove compartment so you better like the choices you made. Without my knowledge they did away with that and the new car I just leased had no CD location, but, had a USB port and SD card port. I now have my Beatle music and other music with a melody, that are not that of people yelling and cursing, on a single SD card that can hold 2000 of my favorites. Complete with menu's and presented in an organized form. For each one I was totally bewildered about how to make it all work. I asked around, experimented on my computer and figured out how to transfer to the SD and have it take up the space of a postage stamp. I admit to being apprehensive about this stuff, but, once I figure it out it is just nothing short of a miracle.

And don't get me started on cell phones. A very short while ago you had a phone in your house, pay phones outside if you needed to contact someone on their stationary phone. You had to memorize phone numbers or make a list that you carried with you. Figure out the area you were calling and determine if it was considered long distance or not. And as a plus that tiny little computer that we carry around with us, can contact and display almost everything known to mankind. One cannot really appreciate the present without having lived the past. Wow... technology, despite some of the problems that they create is absolutely awesome.

Sorry about the length, I got carried away again!
My first car was a pretty old bug, that had a cassette player built in. I bought the car used and it came with a Beach Boys tape stuck in it. It’s all I was ever able to listen to in that car. I think that’s why I love the Beach Boys so much :inlove:

And I remember as a teenager sneaking out of bed to chat with friends in the US at night, when we first got the internet. Needless to say “sneaking around” is an impossible feat with a dial-up modem :D
 

Goofyernmost

Well-Known Member
My first car was a pretty old bug, that had a cassette player built in. I bought the car used and it came with a Beach Boys tape stuck in it. It’s all I was ever able to listen to in that car. I think that’s why I love the Beach Boys so much :inlove:

And I remember as a teenager sneaking out of bed to chat with friends in the US at night, when we first got the internet. Needless to say “sneaking around” is an impossible feat with a dial-up modem :D
Good old "AOL"!
 

MySmallWorldof4

Well-Known Member
My first car was a pretty old bug, that had a cassette player built in. I bought the car used and it came with a Beach Boys tape stuck in it. It’s all I was ever able to listen to in that car. I think that’s why I love the Beach Boys so much :inlove:

And I remember as a teenager sneaking out of bed to chat with friends in the US at night, when we first got the internet. Needless to say “sneaking around” is an impossible feat with a dial-up modem :D
I enjoy the Beach Boys as well. As a teen, I begged my parents to take me to Great Adventure ( a Six Flags Amusement park if you don’t know) to see them give a concert.
 

Mr Ferret 75

Thank you sir. You were an inspiration.
Premium Member
HEY!!! I resemble that remark. And get off my lawn.

I remember the advancement of technology in things as basic as music. When I was young, radio's were AM only and all "record players" were mono and still had the 78 speed choice on them. Then we got transistor radio's that you could carry with you. The sound was awful, but, it was so cool to have one. Stereo recordings started to be sold and radio's went to a choice of AM or FM Stereos. TV's were small screened at first, and remained relatively small even though home TV's were packaged in designer cabinets about the size of a small car. (TV repair people actually came to your house to replace a vacuum tube in a broken TV, which was a regular occurrence.) Then Color TV came out. Those required constant color adjusting but still ended up with different shades of green faces of the people. Now I have a 50 inch HD TV with a picture that is as clear as reality.

Cars upgraded to AM/FM radio's but, not usually stereo. Then someone invented the "boom box", that had AM/FM and in stereo as well as much more powerful and better sound. Compared to today's, they sucked. I should add that they had the ability to play 8 tract and cassette in that order. Heck my first car player that I bought when I was on RR in Japan, played both in the same slot. A very clever design that when you put an 8 track in the cassette player collapsed to allow the bigger thing to be put in and vise versa when you wanted to play a cassette. It was an incredible design but, was a victim of it's own cleverness. To many moving parts so it didn't take to long to fall apart.

After that things happened way to fast to keep up with. Beta and VCR's came out for home viewing. Cars now had a slot in the radio face for an 8 track tape with recorded music in a big loop. That didn't last long before cassettes were used and had much more convenience and better sound. Cars then switched to the cassette player. 8 tracks were officially dead and even cassettes started to feel threatened by a new kid in town called a CD. If you owned a car with a cassette player, you could buy a CD player that had a plug in for the car that looked exactly like a cassette. Don't know how it worked, but, it was quite good. But talk about distractions when you tried to change the CD in the player (battery operated) that was sitting on the "Bench seat" next to you.

As little as 2 or so years ago, almost all cars came equipped with CD players built into the radio. My Cadillac had a 6 CD holder/player that was so great since you could load up the cartridge and play six albums without having to change them. Changing them did require stopping because the holder/player was in the glove compartment so you better like the choices you made. Without my knowledge they did away with that and the new car I just leased had no CD location, but, had a USB port and SD card port. I now have my Beatle music and other music with a melody, that are not that of people yelling and cursing, on a single SD card that can hold 2000 of my favorites. Complete with menu's and presented in an organized form. For each one I was totally bewildered about how to make it all work. I asked around, experimented on my computer and figured out how to transfer to the SD and have it take up the space of a postage stamp. I admit to being apprehensive about this stuff, but, once I figure it out it is just nothing short of a miracle.

And don't get me started on cell phones. A very short while ago you had a phone in your house, pay phones outside if you needed to contact someone on their stationary phone. You had to memorize phone numbers or make a list that you carried with you. Figure out the area you were calling and determine if it was considered long distance or not. And as a plus that tiny little computer that we carry around with us, can contact and display almost everything known to mankind. One cannot really appreciate the present without having lived the past. Wow... technology, despite some of the problems that they create is absolutely awesome.

Sorry about the length, I got carried away again!
I'm with you on the march of technology in the last 20-30 years being scary fast.
 

Tony the Tigger

Well-Known Member
Super proud of him! Like I said, the score doesn't really matter, and we'd be just as proud if he HADN'T scored as high as he did, but it IS nice for HIM. He's very competitive with himself. So he's proud of himself, and that's so great to see. And just nice that the wait for the results is over, because it was really making him stressed.

Sounds like me. If I got a B+, I was more upset than kids who got F’s.

Must be a great kid!

Was like the blind leading the blind 😂😂😂

Hey, now, with the blind jokes!!

j/k, I’ve been merciless with Brian the last couple of months. “You’ll never know the difference” and “just get me to the front of the line at WDW” etc.

Gotta laugh or it’s too serious!
HEY!!! I resemble that remark. And get off my lawn.

I remember the advancement of technology in things as basic as music. When I was young, radio's were AM only and all "record players" were mono and still had the 78 speed choice on them. Then we got transistor radio's that you could carry with you. The sound was awful, but, it was so cool to have one. Stereo recordings started to be sold and radio's went to a choice of AM or FM Stereos. TV's were small screened at first, and remained relatively small even though home TV's were packaged in designer cabinets about the size of a small car. (TV repair people actually came to your house to replace a vacuum tube in a broken TV, which was a regular occurrence.) Then Color TV came out. Those required constant color adjusting but still ended up with different shades of green faces of the people. Now I have a 50 inch HD TV with a picture that is as clear as reality.

Cars upgraded to AM/FM radio's but, not usually stereo. Then someone invented the "boom box", that had AM/FM and in stereo as well as much more powerful and better sound. Compared to today's, they sucked. I should add that they had the ability to play 8 tract and cassette in that order. Heck my first car player that I bought when I was on RR in Japan, played both in the same slot. A very clever design that when you put an 8 track in the cassette player collapsed to allow the bigger thing to be put in and vise versa when you wanted to play a cassette. It was an incredible design but, was a victim of it's own cleverness. To many moving parts so it didn't take to long to fall apart.

After that things happened way to fast to keep up with. Beta and VCR's came out for home viewing. Cars now had a slot in the radio face for an 8 track tape with recorded music in a big loop. That didn't last long before cassettes were used and had much more convenience and better sound. Cars then switched to the cassette player. 8 tracks were officially dead and even cassettes started to feel threatened by a new kid in town called a CD. If you owned a car with a cassette player, you could buy a CD player that had a plug in for the car that looked exactly like a cassette. Don't know how it worked, but, it was quite good. But talk about distractions when you tried to change the CD in the player (battery operated) that was sitting on the "Bench seat" next to you.

As little as 2 or so years ago, almost all cars came equipped with CD players built into the radio. My Cadillac had a 6 CD holder/player that was so great since you could load up the cartridge and play six albums without having to change them. Changing them did require stopping because the holder/player was in the glove compartment so you better like the choices you made. Without my knowledge they did away with that and the new car I just leased had no CD location, but, had a USB port and SD card port. I now have my Beatle music and other music with a melody, that are not that of people yelling and cursing, on a single SD card that can hold 2000 of my favorites. Complete with menu's and presented in an organized form. For each one I was totally bewildered about how to make it all work. I asked around, experimented on my computer and figured out how to transfer to the SD and have it take up the space of a postage stamp. I admit to being apprehensive about this stuff, but, once I figure it out it is just nothing short of a miracle.

And don't get me started on cell phones. A very short while ago you had a phone in your house, pay phones outside if you needed to contact someone on their stationary phone. You had to memorize phone numbers or make a list that you carried with you. Figure out the area you were calling and determine if it was considered long distance or not. And as a plus that tiny little computer that we carry around with us, can contact and display almost everything known to mankind. One cannot really appreciate the present without having lived the past. Wow... technology, despite some of the problems that they create is absolutely awesome.

Sorry about the length, I got carried away again!

I feel like I was just on Carousel of Progress!
 

donaldtoo

Well-Known Member
Thank you!!!
Yes, I was born and raised in Germany, although I spent a few years living in the US and Austria :)




Thank you for the warm welcome!!
The last time I left Disney, I really didn't think it would be ten years until I'd return.
I ended a difficult relationship last year, and for the first time in forever (no pun intended :p) I will spend
a three week vacation the way I really want to spend it. Yep, I am in my mid 30s, and I'll be spending a boat load of money on a solo Disney vacation and I will have the most amazing time! :inlove:

You’re most welcome...!!! :)
I’ve been to Disneyland 5 times, but, the last time was in 2010. :(;) My first visit was in 1968 at the age of 6...!!! :)
First visit to WDW was in 1988 for our honeymoon, and we’ve been back 7 more times since with our kiddos (now grown ;))...!!!

That is awesome!!!!! :happy:
I hope you’, indeed, have an amazing trip...!!!!!!! :joyfull:
 

wdwfan4ver

Well-Known Member
And I remember as a teenager sneaking out of bed to chat with friends in the US at night, when we first got the internet. Needless to say “sneaking around” is an impossible feat with a dial-up modem :D
I know how Dial up modem's were. I'm glad those dial up days are over. My first web browser was Netscape.

I was a senior in high school when the school first got internet access. Since I liked it at school, I talked to my parents about getting internet at home. My mom was sure about it from a safety standpoint at the time, but my dad on the other hand agreed with me about getting the internet at home at the time. My mom in general is not the easiest to adapt to some new technology.

My dad thought internet was going to be very important and change how things were done in some ways. My dad actually started to know about the internet and his work had access to it.
 

donaldtoo

Well-Known Member
Unfortunately, we haven't totally resolved the problem yet, but, I am an eternal optimist. (sometimes) I've had the clear contacts a number of times and they were almost like a miracle. But, they were only for the purpose to healing the cornea. When we took them out, the problem was still there. My worst experience what when I woke up with one and since I knew what it was I immediately jumped in my car and headed to the VA eye clinic. This particular one caused massive sensitivity to light. Any bright light would shoot a sharp pain into my head. I went before day light, but, the oncoming headlights practically killed me. I didn't want to think about what sunrise would do to it.

So very sorry to hear that, but, that sounds like even more aggravation than I had.
My only real problem was I really needed to be working :greedy::greedy::greedy:, but, couldn’t...!!!!! :hilarious:;):)
 

wdwfan4ver

Well-Known Member
You’re most welcome...!!! :)
I’ve been to Disneyland 5 times, but, the last time was in 2010. :(;) My first visit was in 1968 at the age of 6...!!! :)
First visit to WDW was in 1988 for our honeymoon, and we’ve been back 7 more times since with our kiddos (now grown ;))...!!!
That is more times to Disneyland than I did. Disneyland is a place that I like to visit, but I want to stay away before 2021 now due to Star Wars Galaxies Edge being so new.

My Dad went to Disneyland once when he was 11. He went to Disneyland by himself by monorail while his grandma(his mom's side) stayed in Disneyland Hotel watching tv.

Enchanted Tiki room was a couple years old when he went and it basically blew his mind at the time and was his favorite attraction. What blew his mind was how all the Audio Animatronics worked.
 
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Tony the Tigger

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So...disability...

Denied, as expected.

Treated rudely, humiliated, berated - not expected. These people were obnoxious!

From the lady who called last night to confirm we would be there at 8am sharp, to the security guard who not only would not let us on the elevator before 8am sharp, but when Brian began to protest that he thought we were supposed to be upstairs by 8am, he yelled at him and said, "IF I HAVE TO TELL YOU ONE MORE TIME, SIR..." Seriously? What is this - an episode of COPS?

They asked if we had received a CD in the mail. We had not. We'd remember that. They gave us one, it had medical records supplied by ?? from various doctors going back to 2013. (Important records such as his back surgery were missing.) We had about 4 minutes to look it over when he was called in to see the judge because the person scheduled first didn't show. They asked if we had an attorney; we did not. They did not allow me to go in with him. (Oh, I can be pretty attorney-ish. LOL.)

And they freaking grilled him. "I don't know why you're here." "Look at your income for 2018, clearly you can work." Everything he said was met with, "You can work." "You can get a job as a ticket-taker." (What? That came from some recently out of college woman over the phone - a "vocational expert." She said he could also get a job as a barback. Seriously?) The judge asked if he was driving. He said not for the last two months. She said, "Well, that's your choice." o_O

Yes, it's his choice not to potentially cause harm to others since he can't read signs, has no depth perception, and is legally blind in one eye and the other is recovering from surgery.

What. The. Ever. Loving. F?

I would not get in a car with him right now if he was driving.

"You can read. You can read 12 point font!" (accusingly!) Yes, if he holds the paper right up to his left eye, he can figure out what it says. It works best on his phone because of the bright backlight (and increased font size) but is more difficult on a computer for some reason. "Why can't you use a computer? You can get a job doing xyz on a computer!" (Like getting any old job is just as good as what he's been doing for 30 years. And like you can snap your fingers and get a job.)

She wouldn't let him speak except to directly answer the questions until the very end when she asked if there's anything he'd like to add.

He said, "Ma'am, I don't want to be a burden on anybody; I'd rather work. But I'm getting scared because I can't see!"

😥

Maybe it's a good thing I wasn't in the room. :mad:

There is no need to be disrespectful and treat someone like they're trying to get away with something. Hopefully, everything will just be back to our version of normal functionality after he is fully recovered from the surgery, and we won't have to worry about this for several years. 🙏 Chalk this up as a learning experience, and next time get an attorney, even though they will take a cut. (She was pressing the issue a lot about why he didn't have an attorney, and explaining that she and the attorney could have come to some kind of agreement. It sounded very backroom deal-ish, and like she was annoyed he came in by himself sincerely expecting to just answer questions honestly.) He came out of there rattled. Somebody needs a job change.
 

MySmallWorldof4

Well-Known Member
So...disability...

Denied, as expected.

Treated rudely, humiliated, berated - not expected. These people were obnoxious!

From the lady who called last night to confirm we would be there at 8am sharp, to the security guard who not only would not let us on the elevator before 8am sharp, but when Brian began to protest that he thought we were supposed to be upstairs by 8am, he yelled at him and said, "IF I HAVE TO TELL YOU ONE MORE TIME, SIR..." Seriously? What is this - an episode of COPS?

They asked if we had received a CD in the mail. We had not. We'd remember that. They gave us one, it had medical records supplied by ?? from various doctors going back to 2013. (Important records such as his back surgery were missing.) We had about 4 minutes to look it over when he was called in to see the judge because the person scheduled first didn't show. They asked if we had an attorney; we did not. They did not allow me to go in with him. (Oh, I can be pretty attorney-ish. LOL.)

And they freaking grilled him. "I don't know why you're here." "Look at your income for 2018, clearly you can work." Everything he said was met with, "You can work." "You can get a job as a ticket-taker." (What? That came from some recently out of college woman over the phone - a "vocational expert." She said he could also get a job as a barback. Seriously?) The judge asked if he was driving. He said not for the last two months. She said, "Well, that's your choice." o_O

Yes, it's his choice not to potentially cause harm to others since he can't read signs, has no depth perception, and is legally blind in one eye and the other is recovering from surgery.

What. The. Ever. Loving. F?

I would not get in a car with him right now if he was driving.

"You can read. You can read 12 point font!" (accusingly!) Yes, if he holds the paper right up to his left eye, he can figure out what it says. It works best on his phone because of the bright backlight (and increased font size) but is more difficult on a computer for some reason. "Why can't you use a computer? You can get a job doing xyz on a computer!" (Like getting any old job is just as good as what he's been doing for 30 years. And like you can snap your fingers and get a job.)

She wouldn't let him speak except to directly answer the questions until the very end when she asked if there's anything he'd like to add.

He said, "Ma'am, I don't want to be a burden on anybody; I'd rather work. But I'm getting scared because I can't see!"

😥

Maybe it's a good thing I wasn't in the room. :mad:

There is no need to be disrespectful and treat someone like they're trying to get away with something. Hopefully, everything will just be back to our version of normal functionality after he is fully recovered from the surgery, and we won't have to worry about this for several years. 🙏 Chalk this up as a learning experience, and next time get an attorney, even though they will take a cut. (She was pressing the issue a lot about why he didn't have an attorney, and explaining that she and the attorney could have come to some kind of agreement. It sounded very backroom deal-ish, and like she was annoyed he came in by himself sincerely expecting to just answer questions honestly.) He came out of there rattled. Somebody needs a job change.
I wish I could put a tear with that sad face. Those people on their high horses. Those government job milkers(just came up with that). That is just horrible. They should at least treat people with respect. It is weird that she said if he had an attorney they could come up with an agreement. She couldn’t have done the same thing with just Brian? That is just cr*p. A gazillion prayers his eye heals 110%. I am so sorry.
 

ajrwdwgirl

Premium Member
So...disability...

Denied, as expected.

Treated rudely, humiliated, berated - not expected. These people were obnoxious!

From the lady who called last night to confirm we would be there at 8am sharp, to the security guard who not only would not let us on the elevator before 8am sharp, but when Brian began to protest that he thought we were supposed to be upstairs by 8am, he yelled at him and said, "IF I HAVE TO TELL YOU ONE MORE TIME, SIR..." Seriously? What is this - an episode of COPS?

They asked if we had received a CD in the mail. We had not. We'd remember that. They gave us one, it had medical records supplied by ?? from various doctors going back to 2013. (Important records such as his back surgery were missing.) We had about 4 minutes to look it over when he was called in to see the judge because the person scheduled first didn't show. They asked if we had an attorney; we did not. They did not allow me to go in with him. (Oh, I can be pretty attorney-ish. LOL.)

And they freaking grilled him. "I don't know why you're here." "Look at your income for 2018, clearly you can work." Everything he said was met with, "You can work." "You can get a job as a ticket-taker." (What? That came from some recently out of college woman over the phone - a "vocational expert." She said he could also get a job as a barback. Seriously?) The judge asked if he was driving. He said not for the last two months. She said, "Well, that's your choice." o_O

Yes, it's his choice not to potentially cause harm to others since he can't read signs, has no depth perception, and is legally blind in one eye and the other is recovering from surgery.

What. The. Ever. Loving. F?

I would not get in a car with him right now if he was driving.

"You can read. You can read 12 point font!" (accusingly!) Yes, if he holds the paper right up to his left eye, he can figure out what it says. It works best on his phone because of the bright backlight (and increased font size) but is more difficult on a computer for some reason. "Why can't you use a computer? You can get a job doing xyz on a computer!" (Like getting any old job is just as good as what he's been doing for 30 years. And like you can snap your fingers and get a job.)

She wouldn't let him speak except to directly answer the questions until the very end when she asked if there's anything he'd like to add.

He said, "Ma'am, I don't want to be a burden on anybody; I'd rather work. But I'm getting scared because I can't see!"

😥

Maybe it's a good thing I wasn't in the room. :mad:

There is no need to be disrespectful and treat someone like they're trying to get away with something. Hopefully, everything will just be back to our version of normal functionality after he is fully recovered from the surgery, and we won't have to worry about this for several years. 🙏 Chalk this up as a learning experience, and next time get an attorney, even though they will take a cut. (She was pressing the issue a lot about why he didn't have an attorney, and explaining that she and the attorney could have come to some kind of agreement. It sounded very backroom deal-ish, and like she was annoyed he came in by himself sincerely expecting to just answer questions honestly.) He came out of there rattled. Somebody needs a job change.

I'm sorry they were so disrespectful to him, there is no need for that. Good idea to get an attorney next time, I wish you both the best of luck. Unfortunately the system seems to be a little broken. Sometimes people who actually need and deserve disability an other benefits are denied them. One of our teacher's aides at school applied multiple times for disability because of severe back issues, she was in so much pain it was difficult to see her at work. Finally on her 4th surgery when she had a device implanted to stimulate nerves in her back and legs was she finally given disability. This system is some sort of game sometimes.
 

Rista1313

Well-Known Member
My guess is they'll wait to see how the first week or 2 go after reservations end before making a final decision. It's already too late to make a reservation system assigned by days such as they did out in Ca.. ADRs have already been made and some people would have to make major changes to their plans. I'd hate to see what would happen to MDE if you could log in and make reservations:eek::eek::eek::eek:

LOL... then you know that's exactly what they'll do!
 

Rista1313

Well-Known Member
So...disability...

Denied, as expected.

Treated rudely, humiliated, berated - not expected. These people were obnoxious!

From the lady who called last night to confirm we would be there at 8am sharp, to the security guard who not only would not let us on the elevator before 8am sharp, but when Brian began to protest that he thought we were supposed to be upstairs by 8am, he yelled at him and said, "IF I HAVE TO TELL YOU ONE MORE TIME, SIR..." Seriously? What is this - an episode of COPS?

They asked if we had received a CD in the mail. We had not. We'd remember that. They gave us one, it had medical records supplied by ?? from various doctors going back to 2013. (Important records such as his back surgery were missing.) We had about 4 minutes to look it over when he was called in to see the judge because the person scheduled first didn't show. They asked if we had an attorney; we did not. They did not allow me to go in with him. (Oh, I can be pretty attorney-ish. LOL.)

And they freaking grilled him. "I don't know why you're here." "Look at your income for 2018, clearly you can work." Everything he said was met with, "You can work." "You can get a job as a ticket-taker." (What? That came from some recently out of college woman over the phone - a "vocational expert." She said he could also get a job as a barback. Seriously?) The judge asked if he was driving. He said not for the last two months. She said, "Well, that's your choice." o_O

Yes, it's his choice not to potentially cause harm to others since he can't read signs, has no depth perception, and is legally blind in one eye and the other is recovering from surgery.

What. The. Ever. Loving. F?

I would not get in a car with him right now if he was driving.

"You can read. You can read 12 point font!" (accusingly!) Yes, if he holds the paper right up to his left eye, he can figure out what it says. It works best on his phone because of the bright backlight (and increased font size) but is more difficult on a computer for some reason. "Why can't you use a computer? You can get a job doing xyz on a computer!" (Like getting any old job is just as good as what he's been doing for 30 years. And like you can snap your fingers and get a job.)

She wouldn't let him speak except to directly answer the questions until the very end when she asked if there's anything he'd like to add.

He said, "Ma'am, I don't want to be a burden on anybody; I'd rather work. But I'm getting scared because I can't see!"

😥

Maybe it's a good thing I wasn't in the room. :mad:

There is no need to be disrespectful and treat someone like they're trying to get away with something. Hopefully, everything will just be back to our version of normal functionality after he is fully recovered from the surgery, and we won't have to worry about this for several years. 🙏 Chalk this up as a learning experience, and next time get an attorney, even though they will take a cut. (She was pressing the issue a lot about why he didn't have an attorney, and explaining that she and the attorney could have come to some kind of agreement. It sounded very backroom deal-ish, and like she was annoyed he came in by himself sincerely expecting to just answer questions honestly.) He came out of there rattled. Somebody needs a job change.

I'm so sorry... sounds like you had a judge that was already y because his first person was a no show. I would definitely get a lawyer... they take their fees from the back disability pay and they only make $3,000 max. It also sounds like you need the help of an attorney to decide what Brian is getting disability for, back? eyes? While it may have started out as one thing, you can't change it in the middle without starting the whole process over. Definitely get a lawyer.
 

Gabe1

Ivory Tower Squabble EST 2011. WINDMILL SURVIVOR
That's funny. I don't even know where my original birth certificate is. I have two copies that are from 1997. I was born in 1995. My mom also has a copy of hers from 1997, so idk what happened in 1997. Neither does Mom. And sadly, my middle name is definitely my middle name.

We did our TSA pre check a couple of weeks ago, and my mom could not locate her marriage certificate. My dad, who probably could locate a receipt for a hot dog he bought in WDW in 1986, misplaced their marriage certificate. Which then spawned jokes about how he can't ever say he never misfiled papers, and of course me questioning if they were indeed married.

My dad did end up finding it...after my mom took a trip to the DMV for a new one. Even though he has an entire file with other documents related to their wedding, he stuck it in a binder with his high school diploma, bachelor's degree, and a letter saying he'd passed the Maryland bar exam. We are not ever letting this go.

I had to go to the county to get a copy of my marriage certificate for TSA precheck for name change. My DD was with me jumping through hoops. I don’t believe I ever had a copy as the priest submitted to the county. I had never had the need for copy’s. DD decided if she ever.
Arrived she’ll keep her given name after witnessing that. If the HE wants to share a name he can take hers lol. Guys have the easier road with all those traditions.
 

StarWarsGirl

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I had to go to the county to get a copy of my marriage certificate for TSA precheck for name change. My DD was with me jumping through hoops. I don’t believe I ever had a copy as the priest submitted to the county. I had never had the need for copy’s. DD decided if she ever.
Arrived she’ll keep her given name after witnessing that. If the HE wants to share a name he can take hers lol. Guys have the easier road with all those traditions.
Ha I told my mom the same thing after the fiasco with her marriage certificate. I really like my last name anyway, and unless I were to change my first name, I'll be forever telling people how to spell my name unless I were to also change my first name. Which is tempting, but no. But my last name is pronounced like it's spelled, it's easy to spell, and it's unusual. So people usually haven't heard it before but get how to say it.

Except for the staff at the lab where I get my blood drawn. Last time I was Mary. Today I was Marsha. Neither one is my name.
 

Songbird76

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Sounds like me. If I got a B+, I was more upset than kids who got F’s.

Must be a great kid!



Hey, now, with the blind jokes!!

j/k, I’ve been merciless with Brian the last couple of months. “You’ll never know the difference” and “just get me to the front of the line at WDW” etc.

Gotta laugh or it’s too serious!


I feel like I was just on Carousel of Progress!
I was like that in school, too, but I was also scared of my mom's reaction. My mom threatened to take away all my after school activities when I got an A-, so grades were a source of anxiety. I refuse to do that to my kids. But over here, high school is divided. Not everyone goes to the same school, and not everyone gets the same education. The higher you score on this exam, the higher level school you are allowed to apply to. It's kind of like SAT/ACT scores with colleges, but it's going from elementary to high school. But VWO is the Ivy league of high school, so to speak. DS can't do VWO, because special education schools don't offer VWO level, but we're just glad to have finally gotten the results. The company that scored the tests messed 20,000 of them up, so the results were delayed for 2 weeks while they fixed it.
But yes...I have 2 kids who both amaze me regularly. They are awesome kids.

I love your sense of humor with the blind jokes. Does Brian laugh, or does he get annoyed?
 

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