Eric1955
Well-Known Member
I'll bet there's plenty of women who would enjoy your company. You always have interesting points to share in many different conversations here.
Have you tried a more relaxed approach with a woman that you might be interested in? Sometimes, it's easier to ask someone if they'd just like to meet for a cup of coffee some day. That takes a little pressure off both sides, and you can decide after that, if you want to ask her out on an actual date. (In my own situation, my hubby had to ask me three separate times, on different days, if I'd just go have a cup of coffee with him in a "public" place--ha! He knew I was very guarded, but he didn't give up. Finally, I caved. I figured he was either nuts or he just really liked me. So, I said, "O.k. I'll meet you for ONE cup of coffee." His patience paid off--we've been married for 20 years! And . . . all it took was a cup of coffee at Dunkin Donuts one lovely afternoon . . .)![]()
Thanks for the advice. It was my plan to use that approach with a girl I liked at RUF (Presbyterian campus ministry) last semester. Even though I talked to her I never could manage to ask her if she wanted to meet for coffee one day on campus. Haven't seen her since.