OK, just got off the phone with my pop, and keep in mind, this was all well over 40 years ago...
Everything I've posted is correct, except for he said they did have to pay for the pants when we got into the two upper leagues, but, we also got to keep all of the uniform. He said he thinks they're all in a box somewhere deep in their attic...!!!!!
Also, he remembers the signup fee starting out for us around $35, and always being less than $50. Also, all of the coaches, umps, scorekeepers, etc. we're volunteers.
Just my uninformed assessment, but, it all just seems like so much more of some kinda' weird business now.
Back when myself and my bros, as well as my 12-year younger sis played, we, of course, wanted to win, but, if we didn't it wasn't the end of the world...it was just a game (as well as soccer) we loved playing!
We gave it our best, and we won and we lost games. I went to school with so many I played games with and against, and we would just laugh about most of the silliness that would happen!
Ultimately, of course, we all would have preferred to win, but, that's not how sports, or life in general, work (although, we all win by just doing what's right, and what we need to do for our family
).
Bottom line...life's a kooky (no, not a cookie...sorry, I sooooo want a cookie right now...!!!!!
) thing, and taking it all too seriously is beyond stressful, as is taking it all too lightly...there needs to be a balance.