Thanks to both of you and hubby definitely does owe me big time. The time downtown wasn't too bad, there were fun moments. It was hubby's two sisters, one bro in law, the oldest niece and me. The other bro in law stayed back with the younger kids (ages 10-14) and took them to laser tag.
Hubs and I were planning to spend the 29, in the city over night on our own. As I was heading back today with his family hubby texted me and said he still wasn't any better and would I mind if I cancelled the hotel for the 29th. Well if he wasn't feeling better staying in downtown Chicago wouldn't be any fun so I cancelled the hotel.
So here comes the part where I get mad.....
After being back at his sisters house tonight they decide that all the adults should go out to dinner. Fine, hubs is even coming along. So when we get back hubby and I go down to the basement to change into our pajamas. The basement is where we have been allocated to sleep (for years) on air mattresses or a saggy pull out. But I put up with it because he wants to be with his family. This is also where the kids hang out. So I go to where I had neatly piled my blankets and pillows and they are all strewn about and hubby says that they were playing with my pillows earlier and he had to tell them to stop. That makes me mad and it happens frequently but it is just my pillows.
Here is the kicker. So I after changing into pjs after dinner I again I neatly arrange my pillows blankets and the clothes I had worn today on the bed I will be sleeping on. It isn't even in their play/hang out area really. They have no reason to be near it. I even hid my undergarments inside my pants and shirt.
Before we came to bed the kids went to bed and said they were taking funny videos in the basement. Well when we came down to go to bed everything I had neatly put on the air mattress was flung all over it!
I do NOT like people touching my stuff without permission. So I point it out to hubby and he says I shouldn't talk to him about it but to the kids parents. He didn't think it was a big deal. WHAT? Can't he stand up for me? So with my undergarments strewn about now I'm wondering what funny videos they were making. Can't these kids respect other people's property? They didn't do it to hubby's stuff.I am super mad. I think it is a big deal but I don't want to look like the witchy one nor do I want to cause trouble. I think if I visit his family again I will be staying in a hotel or not at all. I don't think our ride back home tomorrow is going to be a fun one. Sorry for the ramble it is just upsetting and I needed to vent. But yeah, hubby definitely owes me big time.