Wow, really? whats wrong with your grandmah?
Sometimes almost feels like she thinks your personal life and love life is her possession to manage.
Well, it's a combination of things really. I'm 21 and have never been in a relationship. I haven't really met anyone I've really been interested in. When I was in high school, looking back, I was more mature than most of my peers, but dating someone older and more along the lines of what I was in maturity would not have worked. And for the past three and a half years, I've been so hyperfocused on school that I haven't had time to date. And even now that I've graduated, it's not top on my priority list. I really don't care if I get married or not.
Before, I've always just tried to remember what the history is for my grandmother. By the time she was my age, she was married and had my father. By the time her daughter (my aunt) was my age, she was married and had a kid. My mom (who was not her daughter, but still) was married for two years when she was my age. So in her mind, I'm at the age where I should be married. Nevermind that she got divorced twice and my aunt is divorcing her husband, so the only young successful marriage was my mom's marriage; in her mind, I'm 21 and out of school and it is time to get married.
She probably also has old, traditional ways of thinking. It wouldn't surprise me if she's also thinking I need a man so I can be taken care of. Not realizing that I'm extremely capable of taking care of myself, thank you very much. She also might be thinking that in order to be happy, I need children, which is definitely, 100% not the case at all.
So before this, I've just always brushed it off, but now I think I need to be firm with her and tell her to stop, because getting friend requests from the MOTHER of a guy she's trying to set me up with is just 1. creepy and 2. crossing the line.
