I've stayed out of this whole bullying conversation as of late because it flat-out torques me off to no end.
But, I feel the need to chime in at this point. Also, I think I posted about this a long while back, as well...
At one point during youngest DDs junior year in high school, she was being bullied/harrassed by a group of fellow students. Females and males. I don't remember the details, but, I do remember this much.
It had been going on for quite a while, and she kept it a secret. Then, one night she came to us weeping. She showed me a text that one of these little punk bas***d boys had just sent her. All this was news to us, and she just couldn't take it anymore.
I was sooo PO'd my head was about to burst into flames after I read the text.
It took me a coupla' minutes to breath and calm down just a bit.
I asked DD for her phone. I then texted the little ****** back that this was now her father answering his text. I told him I knew who he was, I knew who his parents were, and I knew where he lived (and I did). I also told him to spread the word about same to the other little miscreants that, if I didn't already know same about them, I could find out, and if it ever happened again, the next place I would be was knockin' on his front flippin' door...if that didn't work, the police.
Plus, I let the little "f" know the texts were being saved as evidence.
She didn't have problem one from any of those little turds the rest of high school.
Yes, papa bears have been known to be a bit protective, too.