That is kind. And in the end you are right, that chapter of history will not change for your girls. Ultimately you guys are Mom and Dad to them, all that matters.
But what is up with Veterans Cemeteries being full? We as a Nation continue to make new veterans so wouldn't one think we could continue to make new Veteran Cemeteries? The 'things' we are not aware of is annoying and we only become informed by chance.
My Dad is not resting close in Illinois, especially from where he lived. It is South, not Central Illinois but far-more south and west to be considered N. IL or Chicagoland. There was a military portion of the funeral service and my Mom has his Flag, come to think of it, not sure where she put that
flag.
But the place is beautiful and far from full. A friend of his from Childhood is near him and friends widow visits my Dad every week when she visits her hubby.