The problem is getting to be when he gets in the car after drinking too much.
![Facepalm :facepalm: :facepalm:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/facepalm.png)
And he evidently had this problem on and off when my mom was growing up, which I never knew until she told me...last night.
He has had a rough few years. It was hard for him after my grandmother died, and more recently, my paternal grandfather, who was his best friend since he was a kid, has been confined to a nursing home as his dementia is getting worse and worse. So that's been hard for my maternal grandfather. But even so, coming home and having two or three drinks per night is NOT good.
At least 99-year-old stepgrandfather is doing well. He evidently wanted to go up in the attic last week. My grandmother told him absolutely not. But I'm sure there's probably going to be more drama once we get back from CA with my grandma, so...ugh.