Gabe1
Ivory Tower Squabble EST 2011. WINDMILL SURVIVOR
Wow a blackbelt at nine. That is dedication. I try to get my oldest interested in sports but he is more all about the band and different instruments. As long as they have interests, i am content. Congrats on wonderful grandsons.
I agree. I always told my kids they had to be something. When all was said, tried and done they both landed on competitive swimming and that one stuck. It was great for their Dad and me cause we were all in one place at one time, no conquer and divide. I pushed it at first just so they would be strong swimmers like I am, more a life skill I wanted them to have than a sport and because their Dad doesn't know how to swim and that scared the heck out of me when the kids were around water with him and not me. The sport brought on amazing opportunities for them with some great resume builders which payed off when they went out into the world after college. Sure wasn't my intent but you just don't know how life will unfold. Our band man was annoying. I didn't care for his band commitment needing to trump everything or guilt trip. My kids showed little interest and I was fine with that. It wasn't a lack of appreciation for music, my DD played guitar and piano it was the band man.