The Chit Chat Chit Chat Thread

Gabe1

Ivory Tower Squabble EST 2011. WINDMILL SURVIVOR
Hello! Hope all are well. Things have a way of getting very busy around here, this time of year. But, my ear must have been ringing, because I had a strong sense that I should check in and @figmentfan423 was paging me.

Odd how that intuition kicks in isn't it? I thought of you twice this week, #1 with the board meeting last night and #2 I made it to Woodfield over the weekend and to my delight a Garretts Popcorn opened. Not sure if you are a fan or not but when I head home from DT-Chgo I never leave without a Chicago Mix. So happy happy me. :hungry:

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Goofyernmost

Well-Known Member
How old were you when you were married. 8 years is a funny thing, later on it doesn't seem to matter much.
That's what they say, but, in my experience, it was the opposite. It didn't matter much in the beginning... in fact, not at all. As we got older the generational differences started to become glaring. I was 23 when we got married, just home from Vietnam and longing to start my family. You know, pipe and slippers time. Turns out it was just like everyone else... real life!
 

Gabe1

Ivory Tower Squabble EST 2011. WINDMILL SURVIVOR
That's what they say, but, in my experience, it was the opposite. It didn't matter much in the beginning... in fact, not at all. As we got older the generational differences started to become glaring. I was 23 when we got married, just home from Vietnam and longing to start my family. You know, pipe and slippers time. Turns out it was just like everyone else... real life!

My DS dated a short while a young girl just 19 and a college freshman. The ManChild was 24. Her Mom didn't care, I did. Had nothing to do with the young girl, she was nice enough. Now at 27 if the young lady was 22 or 23 I would not have the same issue with a few more years of adult life experience. By this point DS had finished college, had lived both away at college and also had lived in Florida for the CP at Disney. I would have felt the same way if he was 19 freshman and dating a gal out of college too.

My friend 56 married to a guy 87, married for 22 years. 2 kids. He is dead now. They had a great marriage, loved each other very much until the last 5 years when dementia set in with him. With two young teen girls it was very difficult then.

Guess every couple is different.
 

catmom46

Well-Known Member
My DS dated a short while a young girl just 19 and a college freshman. The ManChild was 24. Her Mom didn't care, I did. Had nothing to do with the young girl, she was nice enough. Now at 27 if the young lady was 22 or 23 I would not have the same issue with a few more years of adult life experience. By this point DS had finished college, had lived both away at college and also had lived in Florida for the CP at Disney. I would have felt the same way if he was 19 freshman and dating a gal out of college too.

My friend 56 married to a guy 87, married for 22 years. 2 kids. He is dead now. They had a great marriage, loved each other very much until the last 5 years when dementia set in with him. With two young teen girls it was very difficult then.

Guess every couple is different.

Definitely agree with your last statement. While usually age makes a difference, there are many instances when age is simply a number.
 

Gabe1

Ivory Tower Squabble EST 2011. WINDMILL SURVIVOR
Definitely agree with your last statement. While usually age makes a difference, there are many instances when age is simply a number.

Yep. They were very much in love but she is sad now, a widow. The downside of a big age difference. I liked them both a lot, still he was older than my Dad and he was also older than her own Mother. But he was so good to her and their children. He had a batch of kids before and his wife passed pretty young. His first batch of children did not approve. (understatement)
 

MinnieM123

Premium Member
Perhaps you have been spending too much time looking at snow. That will mess anyone's mind up. I haven't even gotten to Florence yet, but, they will be coming up in a week or so. I'm just kidding with you. I have those days quite often now. ;):joyfull::joyfull::)

BTW, thanks, I'm glad you are enjoying them. It is easy to go overboard and just bore the tears out of everyone.

Ha ha ha!!! Sometimes I crack myself up!! :hilarious: Not sure how I interpreted your Venice part of the TR, to be Florence? :confused: :p :p Hey, look, at least I kept my comments within the same country!!! :D
 

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