Trying to type fast before laptop battery dies...
Re: movie theater b-day:
First, Gary canceled, said he didn't feel well.
Then, Tiffany canceled, said she had a migraine.
OK, this could just be the two of us. Or...
Texted cousin Sharon. Sharon is a sweetheart, she looks like a Precious Moments doll, and she usually throws a big Christmas Eve thingy (but isn't going to this year.)
Went to Publix to get a sugar free cheesecake, a card, other stuff. Sharon texts back while I'm about to check out. It's about 4:15. The movie starts at 6PM.
I called her from the car. She is totally on board with husband Mike. She was supposed to decorate the tree with her (adult) kids tonight, but completely changed her plans at the last minute for Brian, and was already at another Publix parking lot asking me what kind of cake to get because we had to go over their house after the movie. (I told her I already got the cheesecake, and she told me where she parked her car at the other Publix, left the doors unlocked, and I drove over there while she shopped, left the cheesecake on the floor of her car, and locked the doors and went home LOL!)
Laptop battery died. Back up - continuing:
The movie experience was great. Just the four of us, no worries, no disturbances, no potential COVID carrying strangers. Some burgers, brussels sprouts, popcorn, cocktails. You could talk, you could use your phone (though we really didn't except at the very beginning for the novelty of it.) Everyone liked this idea.
Afterwards, we did go back to their house, the kids were there. She had a birthday balloon, a "Happy birthday" sign, and Brian's card - all on her not-yet-decorated Christmas tree LOL. Some more drinks, sang happy birthday, talked about Dad and family stuff, and went home. I think the family component was really good for him. I asked how he was doing on the way to the theater, and he said he was fine but also very emotional and could cry at the drop of a hat. So, while going ourselves would have been fine, he got more love this way.