The sun is out, the birds are chirping, and my windows are open. Which is very good today. Today will mostly be a day of what should be happening, but is lost. Today would have been Prom for DD. And it was also supposed to be DS's senior recital. It is a picture perfect day for both, and yet, instead, we will shelter and mourn the could have and should haves. All not so bad, but for young people, just heart breaking.