My condolences to you and your wife! One can never be prepared enough to say goodbye for good. She was obviously well loved and loving. Sending giant hugs to all of you!
Thinking of you and your family.
My condolences on your loss.
So sorry for your loss
Thank you all very much for your kind thoughts and words, as it is indeed greatly appreciated.
As has been mentioned, all the prep in the world doesn’t truly prepare you for something like this.
Other than dropping our special needs son off at work, I was here with her all day since about the middle of March. But, towards the end, I had one of my parents (fortunately, my Mom and Pop are still pretty healthy at age 86 and 91, respectively) taking care of that, as I didn’t want her to be here alone for that long.
Her dexterity had gotten to the point where she couldn’t even answer her phone anymore, much less plug her iPhone or iPad in for charging, or even feed herself.
A few months back she became, pretty much, completely immobile, so she needed help with everything. Her eyesight and hearing had been bad for a while, too.
I catch myself, in short moments, doing things like turning down our living room TV volume so as not to disturb her, making sure the A/C isn’t set too low, as she got cold easy, making sure when I go out to the garage refrigerator that I don’t let the door shut too loudly, etc.
For the first times today, I let the door from the house to the garage close on its own, turned the TV volume up a couple of notches, and the A/C down about 4 more degrees.
Anyway, I’m rambling.
I just didn’t expect it to be quite this difficult, I guess.
Thanks again to everyone for your kind thoughts and words. It means a lot.