OK, this analogy is going to sound bizarre and you all will probably think I'm nuts but work with me here.
If possible think of what is happening at SSE right now like this:
Say your planning a beautiful and huge Christmas dinner for your family, and you have all these great dishes planned with all the right touches for a special day.
The family is suppose to arrive at 6pm for dinner.
Phone rings at noon. Uncle Henry announces he has to eat at 1pm instead.
You try explaining that it's just not possible to make the perfect dinner that you'd planned without the proper time, but Uncle Henry is a very demanding guy and says too bad, get it together anyway cause we're coming. We have our reasons for needing to eat early, this time of the year only comes once, and there's stuff I need to do!
So instead of the green bean casserole, you have to grab a can of green beans, instead of your famous homemade potatoes, you have to grab the Hungry Jack. Instead of the centerpiece for the table that wasn't finished, you have to find something from the garage that'll do for now cause you have nooo time to be making pretty stuff! And heck, don't even mention the poor turkey.
So 1pm comes and the family shows up and everyone is polite and dinner is served and around 3pm everyone leaves. On the car ride home Uncle Henry starts complaining that the meal wasn't very exciting. Some parts were ok, but there sure were alot of things that should have been better. What the heck was up with that dead thing in the center of the table, what was that anyway?
Aunt Marie tries to tell him that if only he'd given you the full amount of time you were supposed to have to prepare, things would have been alot different. You know you could have done better, but you did the best you could with the time you had right? I mean Uncle Henry is the big boss... what he says goes. You may be the boss in your house, but Henry is the boss of the whole family. Sometimes we don't quit understand him, but he's the man.
So you did your best, and tried to please everyone. You really didn't have a choice in the matter, sometimes you just have to do what you have to do, even if you don't like it. Even if it makes some of the family think you can't cook!
Aren't the holidays great?