I have a "spirited observation..."
Last night, there was a completely off-topic and utterly ridiculous conversation over in Captain Neo's Phineas and Ferb thread. I had gone to bed before most of the hilarity ensued but I woke up in time to read honest-to-goodness laugh out loud jokes courtesy of @
Sue_Vongello (with whom I often disagree) and a number of others. Right around the time I finished reading the thread, nine pages had become two after the moderators hacked and butchered away. Many of my ON topic posts were also lost in the purge.
Recently, on this very thread I believe, @
The Empress Lilly pointed out that user @
Pixiedustmaker has been gone for some time after being significantly bullied by other, "more popular" posters. @
wdwmagic justified the treatment of Pixie because he or she was a "willing participant" in the conversations in which he or she took place. I happen to like the "willing participant" argument. We're all adults here, or at least teenagers with some sense, and I think we should be able to engage in conversations that make us angry or make us laugh or lead to disagreement. No one is forced to participate.
Why then, is the "willing participant" argument valid for bullying certain posters, but not for harmless comedic banter that happens to be off-topic (in a non-starter of a thread, I might add)? I'm even more concerned about the selective editing of individual posts. If I make a logical argument that follows A->B->C and the mods delete "B," I look like an idiot for leaping from A to C with apparently no logical connection.
I don't presume to tell @
wdwmagic or anyone else how to run or manage this site. I am, after all, a "willing participant" and should abide by the community rules. That being said, it's just not fun anymore. I guess that's my main point. It's just not fun. Argument is impossible because someone eventually gets personal and then the LEGITIMATE points are thrown out along with the garbage ones. Humor is impossible because it's generally off topic. Didn't I read something about Miley Cyrus being a weapon of mass destruction very recently? I might stick around and chime in here and there but I don't have the patience anymore to engage in conversations just to have theme deleted a few hours later.