For the super special occasion like this once in a lifetime trip I would recommend. The My Disney Girl's Perfectly Princess Tea Party. It is absolutely amazing for the girls and their mothers. I even went to video and take pictures and for me it was even fun watching the smiles.
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[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Grand Floridian's Garden View Lounge[/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]The My Disney Girl's Perfectly Princess Tea Party at Disney's Grand Floridian Resort and Spa has become permanent. [/FONT]
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Your little girl can dress up and have a special tea party with Princess Aurora from Sleeping Beauty. The tea party is hosted by "Rose Petal" a magical rose from Aurora's garden, who will lead sing-alongs, storytelling and a princess parade. [/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]In addition to the tea party, princess cake and meet and great with Aurora, each guest from 3-11 will receive "My Disney Girl" collectable doll plus accessories; a tiara, Princess link bracelet, princess scrapbook page and a "Best Friend" certificate. [/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]If a little boy wishes to attend, they will receive a teddy bear and princely crown instead of the doll and tiara![/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Adults receive a selection of hot tea and a luncheon plate with small sandwiches, cheese briquettes, lavosh crackers and fruit.[/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Children receive juice and a luncheon plate with fruit, small sandwiches and heart-shaped peanut butter and jelly sandwiches.[/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]$225 includes gratuity (but not tax) for one adult and one child ages 3-11. Additional adult guest (12 and older) is $75 plus tax and an additional child is $150 plus tax. Refunds available if you cancel more than 72 hours from the date of your event.[/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Book up to 180 days in advance. Your credit card will be charged by WDW prior to the event. [/FONT]
[FONT=Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Sunday, Monday, Wednesday, Thursday & Friday 10:30am - Noon. Arrive 15 minutes prior to check-in.[/FONT]
If this is to much, then i would highly recommend Bibbity Bobbity Boutique. Girls can never have ot much pampering.