I keep an eye on my kids and lean more toward the "paranoid" side of it. To the point that my husband's family thinks that we are too paranoid, so I get it. Plus, if you read other posts, I just posted that I won't even have a pizza delivery person come to my hotel room for safety reasons. So I am on the more safety the better side of things. But there is a difference between keeping an eye on them and not letting them leave your side for a few minutes, at WDW. They have to be out of your sight at some point in their life, school, work, going out with their friends, etc. Holding on too tight or making them feel guilty for wanting to be away from you does not end well. We are not talking about a 5 yo here. If you are at the point that having your teenager leave your sight for a few minutes is not something that you can do, then it is time for some soul searching and maybe some counseling. It is not easy to "let go" of your kids as they age. But holding on like that only hurts yourself and them. My kids are 18(almost 19) and 17.