You bring up interesting points Parentsof4. I do think Disney marketing's strategy has been that over the years. Condition people to think that their default vacation should be Disney, that Orlando means Disney, and taa da, you never have to worry about people coming to your parks. And I do agree UO has to break that habit in order to begin seriously impacting WDW.
I'm not sure you will agree on this (which is fine, it's just my opinion
), but Universal has already begun to break people of this habit. I don't really think they were before the advent of Potter but since it was built, definitely yes. They chose an extremely popular book series beloved by not just adults...but children too. The parks growing numbers reflect that. It's not just families of teenage boys visiting Universal. And from what I've seen, people's habits are changing. As has been stated by others on this thread and in my own experience, more and more people are taking time out of what would have been an all Disney vacation for Universal (and other parks). So when people think "Orlando vacation," they are no longer just thinking Disney.
I'll use myself as an example. When I was younger, I was exactly like that. Disney was where we went and we went no other place. I heard "Orlando" and I thought Disney. Then we gave Universal a one day try and we loved it. We gave Uni more time the next trip and also thought, hey, Uni was great...why don't we try Sea World too? And we loved it there too. So now when I hear "Orlando," I think Disney, Universal, Sea World. And that was
before Potter even came along. Habits are indeed hard to break but I think Universal has finally developed a winning strategy for it and we'll only see the pattern continue with the opening of Potter 2.0 as well as whatever else (they seem to have other major plans in the works from what has been said on here) they have coming down the pipeline.
And it also doesn't help the fact that Disney has scaled back on doing things that will absolutely "wow" old fans of Disney and new ones alike. I'm looking forward to NFE, I really really am, but nothing I've seen about it has really wowed me in any way. At the end of the day its a new restaurant (with most likely generic park food), a meet and greet, an enhancement on an old ride, and a family roller coaster. Those don't say "pushing the boundaries of technology and creativity" to me, as I (used to) expect of Disney, though I'm sure I'll enjoy them. It's just not the level I know Disney could be at if they wanted to. To keep habits reinforced you have to keep offering new things and when I say new, I don't necessarily mean say even a new park or tons and tons and tons of new rides, though I would like it a few. New can mean overhauling an old ride even or just fixing what is wrong with AK/DHS. I'm not sure Disney is "reinforcing the habit" as well as they used to.