Need some help with my trip. Kind of personal

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Zartan666

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OK so I planed out a nice week at the World for me and my girlfriend. Our trip is in 2 weeks. BUT she has just stoped talking to me. No phone calls or emails for a month now. We are in a long distance relationship btw. IM in Kentucky, she is in Texas. I have done everything I can to get her attention short of going to her house. But to no avail. Even her sister claims to not have a clue why she wont talk to me. So ok. The relationship is over. Im cool with that. But what about the trip?

I bought the vacation insureance, but it dosnt cover breakups. Plus I still want to go. Even if its on my own, though I would rather have someone with me. So what can I do? And what should I do? None of my friends are able to go due to work, or just no money on such short notice. So Im kind of stuck. Please give me some advice.
 
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Master Yoda

Master Yoda

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See if her sister would like to go as a friend. Should twist the knife just a bit. :drevil:

In reality you won't be out any money but you will be loaning it to Disney for a little while. Go on the trip and hold onto your now ex's ticket. You can use it on a future trip. If you got the DDP eat like a king at a signature restaurant every night.
 
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luvlifeinfl

luvlifeinfl

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Wow,

I am sorry that she has cut ties and will not give a reason, but all in all it sounds like you might be stuck, you have tried to fix thigns w/ her, you have tried to find someone to go in her place and for you not to loose your money you might be going by your self.

If you do go it will at least give you time away.

Sorry can't be more help.
 
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Victoria

Victoria

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Go alone! It will be a great time. Sounds like you could probably use a break from reality right now, and Disney is the best place in the world to do that!
 
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corey154

corey154

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I wish I had advice for you but I don't, I just wanted to wish you luck that it all works out and you have a great time. If the trip is paid off already, then I'd say you should still go...people go alone all of the time!
 
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mickey7879

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I'd ask every single friend or relative I know that you wouldn't mind traveling with. If all else fails, go alone. You never know, you may meet someone while you're down there!:shrug: You may see if someone on here may be going alone at the same time and you could meet up. Is there a niece or nephew you could bring along that's never been? I guess it would all depend on how much money you'd be losing out on if you didn't go or had no one to go with. I'm the type who wouldn't like to go by myself.:brick:
 
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nepalostparks

nepalostparks

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First of all, I'm sorry to hear about the whole issue. Long distance relationships are rough.

As others have said, keep trying to find someone to go with you. If all attempts fail, definitely still go by yourself. You already have the time off and everything planned... take the vacation!

Search the threads for solo tripping... I've read some of them and they have a number of suggestions on what to do on a solo trip. And I'm sure some of the posters would be happy to share their thoughts with you.

One things I know I would love to do if I took a solo trip is to take the time to walk every inch of the parks, and photograph to my hearts content. No schedules or anyone else in the party to worry about... just taking it at my own pace.

Best of luck, hope you are able to enjoy the trip!
 
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harveyt0206

harveyt0206

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Go on the trip solo. You will have a blast. And just for giggles, ask any attractive lady that you see (in a polite, non-creepy way of course) if you can take a revenge picture with them and then send the pics to your ex once an hour. :ROFLOL::fork:
 
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philsname

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As everyone else has said, very sorry to hear of your situation. From experience I can tell you that solo trips are a ton of fun. Been on two myself.

The biggest plus is being on your own schedule.
 
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Ariel484

Ariel484

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I agree with everyone else about going on a solo trip, and Master Yoda's signature dining suggestion is a great one. And get lots of character hugs to brighten your day :)
 
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mickey2008.1

mickey2008.1

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i would definitely go on the trip. if you dont want to be alone, there are plenty of women who would definitely jump at the chance for a free trip, and who knows, it might even be your future wife, like mine!:sohappy:
 
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epcotfan

epcotfan

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Wow almost the same thing happened to me!

Wow, I can't believe I found this thread. Almost the exact same thing happened to me a few weeks ago. I was planning a WDW trip with a long distance "friend"...(well we were a bit more than friends) and he bailed on me. Stopped talking, didn't know what happened to him for a few weeks. Fortunately I hadn't booked the trip yet. I originally was supposed to go to the D23 convention in Anaheim on a solo trip. He asked me to go to WDW instead so I changed my plans for him. So needless to say I didn't book a room for the Anaheim convention. Since he changed his mind it was to late for me to get a room for my original solo trip to California. :mad: Anyhow just wanted to let the OP know you're not alone and I hope you can get some closure. It is horrible when people leave you hanging like that.
 
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Zartan666

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Thanks guys. I guess I should have worded my original post better. There is no way Im not going on this trip. And I have ADR`s for at least of the 2 nicer restaraunts every day Im there. So I will be eating good. I hope. Thank you free dinning.
My biggest problem honeslty is I decided to be cheap on the plane tickets and bought the non refundable ones. Honestly the last time I will ever do that. So to keep myself from being out too much money, Im going to fly to Laredo, and sit for a few hours at the airport before I leave for Orlando. Great. So I guess in the long run I will only be out what I paid for her plane ticket and her MNSSHP ticket. I guess thats not too bad.
 
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Phonedave

Phonedave

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Zartan666 said:
Thanks guys. I guess I should have worded my original post better. There is no way Im not going on this trip. And I have ADR`s for at least of the 2 nicer restaraunts every day Im there. So I will be eating good. I hope. Thank you free dinning.
My biggest problem honeslty is I decided to be cheap on the plane tickets and bought the non refundable ones. Honestly the last time I will ever do that. So to keep myself from being out too much money, Im going to fly to Laredo, and sit for a few hours at the airport before I leave for Orlando. Great. So I guess in the long run I will only be out what I paid for her plane ticket and her MNSSHP ticket. I guess thats not too bad.
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Oh my, what an excellent ice breaker.

Find someone in the parks, tell them your story, then ask them to go the MNSSHP with you.

Either that or stand outside the ticket window and try and scalp it

It may be a little late to try and sell it on ebay.

-dave
 
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disneygirl1

disneygirl1

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Oh man, that stinks, so sorry she is putting you in this situation!!! But I like Yoda's thought!!! Take the sister, that will really set the GF off! :ROFLOL:
 
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