Quite. I must say though that the maniac attacking random people was so extreme that there was always going to be a major difference between one and two!
I have to agree, it's not always obvious who has difficulty standing and who doesn't. I suffer from dystonia which affects my co-ordination in my limbs and the severity of it can vary from day to day. When I walk it's apparent to most looking (and boy do some people look, I usually stare back and shame them
) that there's something not going on quite right with my walking. When we get on the monorail at busy times and there's s no seats available, I often have people offer me their seat. It's very nice of them but it's not something I expect them to do and why should I expect them to do this? Those that do are showing care and compassion for a fellow human being and it's much appreciated, but I see it as an act of kindness and not something to be punished if not offered.
On one occasion we boarded the ferry from the TTC to the MK and a kind teenage girl offered me her seat as I was struggling a bit that day and she had noticed. I thanked her and said "Thanks so much but I'm sure I'll be ok". She said "honestly it's no problem" and so I accepted her kind offer. As the ferry filled up even more a very large lady got on and walked over to near where I was sat. She looked at me and it became obvious by her face that she expected a slim, healthy looking (when sat down) man in his 40's should be offering her my seat. I thought about it but then thought it would be a bit odd giving up a seat which was kindly given to me by somebody else for medical reasons and also that if she wasn't so large then standing wouldn't be such a problem (I'm aware some large people can't help it but many can). She then said rather loudly "There's just no manners anymore is there, used to be that a gentleman would stand for a lady". Even when I explained the situation she didn't look impressed and made a kind of sighing/ wheezing noise. It was the longest ferry crossing I'd ever experienced