I don't think you are in the minority. Most of the people who complain the most still visit WDW frequently. More frequently than me. They either still enjoy going to the parks or they are really dumb and love to waste their money on something they don't even like. Most are in the first category, very few in the second (you know who you are
). I think for the most part those who point out flaws and talk about issues probably still have a great time the majority of their time spent at WDW.
To me it's like being a sports fan. I can watch every Eagles game religiously and still be critical of the team, the coaches or the ownership.