This perfectly describes my middle brother, he went to DL once and hated it, too crowded, lines were all long, too expensive, etc… that was 15 years ago and he’s never stepped foot in a Disney park since, you only get one chance to make a first impression.
This describes my oldest brother, my sister, and myself… I’ve told the story before about how my first trip to DL I watched a couple characters interact with a group of kids with Down syndrome for probably half an hour, it was one of the most “magical” things I’ve ever seen in my life, my first trip to WDW Stitch nearly tackled me as I was walking to Space Mtn at rope drop, to this day I don’t know how he knew I was feeling uncomfortable (as a single middle aged guy) at WDW but he grabbed me out of the crowd and bear hugged me and it’s a moment I’ll never forget, it also defined the rest of my trip, from that moment on I no longer felt like a single old guy, I was just a big kid enjoying WDW.
Disney has always been expensive and a bit confusing but when they get it right it’s like no other place on earth.