Disneykidder
Well-Known Member
Great job!!!!
Wikipedia is not always the best resource for accurate information. They go to great lengths to preserve the integrity of the site and the information that's posted on it, but I have seen inaccuracies on it. The description you're citing is not entirely accurate. It leaves out the intent to affect the other person in some way. So going back to my earlier example of giving someone the silent treatment (which is generally a classic example of passive aggressive behavior), then intent is usually to "make the other person feel guilty" or to frustrate or even manipulate the other person. That's the "aggressive" part. The "passive" part is in the individual's indirect approach. Sometimes people take a "time out" from an argument. That's not being passive aggressive. That's just allowing time to cool off. Likewise, if I go to a theme park and notice that people are cutting in line in front of me, but I don't care, then I'm neither being passive nor aggressive. If I do let it bother me, but I don't do anything about it, I'm being passive. If I let it bother me, and decide the way to handle it is to just block their path without looking at them or communicating with them in any way, then I'm being passive aggressive. I hope that helps.
When wait times are 30mins., 45 mins., or over an hour long, then people cutting lines, esp. groups, do affect my time and ability to get to all the attractions.
What it really comes down to is common courtesy. Wait your turn. Why is that such a hard concept to grasp?
I'm interested, do you live in Florida where you can make multiple trips. Because I know the only way I could be as laid back is if I can make multiple trips or go during a slow season where wait times don't matter.
It does, thanks. If you don't mind my asking, are you a pro of some kind? (If you do mind, feel free to just not answer, I won't be offended).
Seriously?? I mean, really, it's happening THAT often? You don't think maybe you're exaggerating just a bit? You really believe that in any given day, you're cut in front of so many times that the time is going to add up to you missing multiple attractions (or even one for that matter) as a direct result of it? Sorry, but I just find that very hard to swallow.
Logical as well. My iPhone is white...I am about sick of him as well.
Teens just getting out of Captain EO should meet their friends at the end of the line for Soarin'. In this case it's about getting in front of people by sending your friends on into the line for you.
Ok Ziffell....UNCLE
You are right, it's because I go at peak season, gee if only I had figured that out before I started reading about the live and let live dribble.
Even though you may believe, because it trully does further your cause, that people can think through their emotions and let rudeness be, I was not brought up that way. As a person that teaches diversity, you should accept that and not think it backward.
As far as your belief that line jumping isn't a problem, you haven't beesn to WDW in a couple of years. how do you judge what is happening now and question whether we are exagerating. It's all a matter of personal perception.
Diversity means you accept that others are different or have a different opinion. It doesn't mean brow beat them, or belittle them until they see everything your way.
Logical as well. My iPhone is white...I am about sick of him as well.
My IPhone is black.
When i was in the queue for Rock 'n' Roller, there was a guy who looked like a bodybuilder, who managed to keep a party of 20-25 from line-jumping to their 5 friends. I had so much respect for that guy =D
As far as your belief that line jumping isn't a problem, you haven't been to WDW in a couple of years. How do you judge what is happening now and question whether we are exagerating. It's all a matter of personal perception. And it is a popular topic. Are we all lying?
Diversity means you accept that others are different or have a different opinion. It doesn't mean brow beat them, or belittle them, until they see everything your way.
Even 1 time is too many.
Sometimes it takes more than one to get the message through...:lol:That's exactly what I said.
The line cutters that burn my derriere are the ones who lie about cutting. You know the ones right? The ones where you say, "wait, you were behind me a second ago" and they immediately get in your face and tell you they have been there for the last hour (nevermind that the line is only 30 minutes long) and you are just a stupid liar.
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