I am in a class currently focused on Feminism and the teacher believes that Beauty and the Beast is about domestic violence....WHATTT has anyone ever heard/noticed this? because I still don't see it.
Yup, and I can't enjoy it much anymore because of that. And it takes a LOT for me, because I can get over the overt racism and sexism prevalent in almost every film to enjoy the lighthearted aspects of most of the rest of the Disney canon.
The thing with BatB is Belle sees through the Beast's violence to his good inside. She tolerates his abuse and imprisonment because she believes his rare good moments make up for it, which is a common theme in domestic violence and a huge, huge issue. The film has the potential to foster negative attitudes about relationships--yeah, you can say "I turned out fine!" (although in my case, many people don't think growing up to be a rabid feminist is fine!), but just because it might not make an impact on everyone, the negativity remains. It's like Twilight, your kid probably isn't dumb enough to get the message that threatening, controlling stalkers are good boyfriends, but the books still communicate that, and that's a just bit weird.
IMO, there's always at least two readings to these to make them tolerable, and the second would be that Belle doesn't give in to the Beast as everyone else does, and he learns to be his real, gentle self permanently once he realizes he is loved for who he is...
Just like you could say that Ariel is an idiotic tart and Eric becomes attracted to her based solely on her appearance ("the men up there don't like a lot of chatter") OR you could say that he realizes she's physically beautiful but doesn't actually love her until she gets her soul/personality (voice) back.
Oh, and I think reading into things is fun. I get totally bored with anything that doesn't have subtext, and Disney movies have a TON. So they're very, very fun.