OKay, don't mean to intrude, but as I am relatively new here, I think I can simpathize some, and also advise some.
I kind of jumped in here when the Frozen ride in Norway was first announced, and I jumped in questioning why that is such an issue.
First I will say I went way over, and should have read closer and seen both sides of the argument better.
My point is this, there are some extremely dedicated, and fanatical Disney fans on this site. Some have become very ...disappointed due to what seems as a very real loss of direction that this company has taken. They miss the days of what Disney really stood for, which was total fan satisfaction, and reaching for the unreachable. They rightfully remember the days where going to Disney was so over the top in customer service and theme, that you totally lost touch with the existing world.
As such, they are extremely upset when these haphazard changes take place, and then when new rides or ideas do get done, they are not as well thought out or executed as they were in the past. Then new folks come in, who seem to be more open to change, regardless of value or fit, and it causes angst.
Here is the key, it is a message board. If you allow yourself to take anything personal its on you. You are more than entitled to your opinions, and as long as you follow the forum rules post as you like. But you can't take umbrage when you suddenly question a long time poster's style when you don't understand or fail to see their point of view.
I love this place, the insiders here are awesome, and you can get a TON of new information here. You just need to respect the fact that some here really know more, and are more reliable to listen to.