Grow Up Already!

[Epcot '92]

I used to get this reacton, but not anymore... WDW is a place for all. No one should ever say that "Disney gets boring" I state my case and actually get people to go to Disney in addition to their USO trip.

 

[koryadams]

My friends usually say "you always go" "why do you go there all the time" "you go on vacation alot"
I mean I have friends who get it, but normally I don't tell people unless they need to know or ask or something like that.
But I know people who said they dont like it and hate WDW and I almost wanted to defriend them and never speak to them again lol

I have to have my Disney!

 

[wvdisneyfamily]

Someone just asked me if I ever wanted to go somewhere else. Of course. There's a whole world out there. I've seen a lot of it. I plan on seeing more. WDW is not my only destination, but it is my favorite. We plan on going at least twice a year until DS is old enough for some different trips. Even then WDW will be a part of our lives at least once a year.

 

[Susan Savia]

When I was working I got to a point where I just didn't bring up WDW because they somehow think its all about just Mickey Mouse and Donald Duck. I figured their loss. I only wish we could go oftener. Oh and my 25 year old son is just as crazy about the place as we are!!!

 

[WorldKey]

It's so true that many people do not know all that Disney has to offer. I have been trying to get some of my good friends to plan a small group trip and what I hear most is something to the effect of ".....if I'm gonna spend money on a vacation I want to go some place that I can drink, and dine, and swim..." Of course we all know that there are plenty of those things in the World. I know my friends would have a blast in World Showcase if you know what I mean!

 

[WorldKey]

Someone just asked me if I ever wanted to go somewhere else. Of course. There's a whole world out there. I've seen a lot of it. I plan on seeing more. WDW is not my only destination, but it is my favorite. We plan on going at least twice a year until DS is old enough for some different trips. Even then WDW will be a part of our lives at least once a year.

My answer would be - "Sure, Disney Resort Paris, Hong Kong Disneyland, Tokyo Disney Seas.........." :ROFLOL:

 

[ChrisFL]

I posted this in another thread, but there are TONS of activities on property that aren't designed for kids.

Just think of all of the things to do on the seven seas lagoon, speed boats, fishing, parasailing, luxury cruising, then there's the golf courses, the spas, the entertainment at the Boardwalk and (what's left of) Downtown Disney...World Showcase at Epcot is still a great adult place to walk around and drink and eat.

Of course, all of the Disney marketing these days is for families with little kids, so clearly people who haven't been get the wrong impression.

 

[twinnstar]

I hear ya.

The only person who seems genuinly into whatever I have to tell him about Disney is my husband, and he isnt a big Disney fanatic - he just loooves me. haha

My parents and sister and best friends will usually giggle and roll their eyes in a kidding way, but will humor me, and usually say they'd like to go to WDW with me sometime. But sometimes they also tell me to shut up about it and talk about something else!

Now strangers or acquaintances on the other hand - WOWEE...yes. I get the "grow up" thing, or the weird looks like im some kind of weirdo ALL-THE-TIME. And its like, I dont even talk to these people directly, this will be like me talking to a coworker who likes Disney - and another coworker overhears me and makes a face or a comment. Excuse, was I talking to you?? I really dont understand what the hell people's problems are. If I were really into cars or clothes or rollercoasters or cooking - no one would bat an eye. But cause its a "kids" ( ) thing, its this weirdo thing to everyone.

You know what I think about those people? I think those people must have pretty sad pathetic lives. If you care so much what makes other people happy, you have issues.

I just remembered, when I went to Disney in Sept, my cousin posted on my facebook "You're going there AGAIN?!?!?! WHY????" .... i love her. but, really? Why do you care where I vacation? How does that effect you in any way shape or form?

 

[Todd H]

The wife and I love Disney World and would probably go every year if we could. I'm 42 and the wife is 32. The rest of my family does as well. I wouldn't let it bother you. Just enjoy life and have fun. Only get one go around on this big, blue ball called Earth.

 

[Walt Disney1955]

we are now friends! 27 y/o with a 20 month old. i live for God and family, outside of that is sports (cowboys, yankees) and all things disney. most people would look at my tattoos and think "disney, really?"

I agree with your post. Okay, I can't stand either one of the Cowboys and Yankees, but I will forgive you for that one, lol.

 

[Walt Disney1955]

By the way, lets get one thing clear here. This entire empire was started by a man who would have been in his late 30s at the time. Walt by all accounts has said Disneyland was a 15 year idea. If we take that at face value then it was 1940 when he came up with the idea.

According to Walt, he would take his daughters to the park and they would play on the swings and see-saw and so on and he would sit there bored out of his mind. His vision was to build a place where parents and kids could both have fun. He did just that. So the historical reason for Disneyland as a fact, was NOT intended just for children.

 

[CaptainShortty]

I get this a lot. My family and friends aren't so blunt about it but you can tell that a lot of them don't understand my obsession. It wasn't until I went down on the college program and became friends with a whole bunch of other 20-something year olds who were just as Disney crazy as I was. Now I'm back at school, my obsession has gotten worse and my DCP friends are the only ones that understand. You pretty much have to chalk it up to letting them not understand and being your own person and loving it just the same. Some people will get it and except it, some people won't and unfortunately, there isn't anything you can do about it, IMO. In the words of Peter Pan, "I will not grow up. You cannot make me!"

 

[AEfx]

I'm 55, and hear similar comments from folks. Same with 'Why do you go back there all the time? So, I started asking folks where they like to vacation. I hear things like 'Oh, I just love the beach'. I'll ask them how often they get there, and they usually say something like 'as much as I can'. With a small smirk on my face I ask them 'Why? Its sand, its water, its the same thing all the time'. Then they get defensive, telling me 'I love everything about it...the sounds, the smells, its so relaxing, I just forget about everything else'. At that point I let the smirk get a bit bigger, then ask them 'What was it you asked me again?'. You can actually see the light bulb go on, followed by a sheepish 'Oh, I see your point'.

Some people get it, some people don't. Has nothing to do with being 'grown up' (whatever that means). Some folks only feel good if they can put someone else down. Just give them the smirk, and make another trip to the Dole Whip stand.

Gary

LOL I have had VERY similar conversations.

I have friends that spend $5K for a couple to spend a week on a beach. I'm like...hmm, I could turn that into two week-long Disney trips, and have some extra left over.

A beach vacation is the most boring thing I could imagine. I like the water, I like living near it, but I just cannot fathom (pun intended) people that pay a week to lay on a beach. All I can think of is skin cancer LOL, and if forced on one I'd be under an umbrella reading all day, wishing I was reading at home.

It's such different strokes for different folks, but I have to say it's nice to know I'm not the only one who feels similarly.

 

[AintNoOtherMan]

If everyone were to grow up, who would be imagineers? Cast members?

 

[UberPlannerMom]

LOL I have had VERY similar conversations.

I have friends that spend $5K for a couple to spend a week on a beach. I'm like...hmm, I could turn that into two week-long Disney trips, and have some extra left over.

A beach vacation is the most boring thing I could imagine. I like the water, I like living near it, but I just cannot fathom (pun intended) people that pay a week to lay on a beach. All I can think of is skin cancer LOL, and if forced on one I'd be under an umbrella reading all day, wishing I was reading at home.

It's such different strokes for different folks, but I have to say it's nice to know I'm not the only one who feels similarly.

^^This!^^
All of the women in my husband's family take a trip to lay out at the beach for a week every year. After the second year of them acting like I should ask to be included I looked at them and said, "Please don't ever ask me to go. I would say yes just to spend time with you and then I would be miserable because I am not a lay still and bake in the sun kind of girl." They stopped all of their prodding but they definitely all think I am wacko!

 

[Crazy Harry]

oh i get that, eventhough i've only ever been 4 times in my life. 'wouldn't you rather go somewhere else?' 'why is disney so interesting to you?' 'don't you get bored?'
but none of them have ever been, and they don't 'get' disney.
i also get ridiculed because i'm a bit of a geek: i like computers, i like sci fi, i like lego, i like disney, i like south park, i like american dad, i like watching disney films. nerd, geek, whatever.
most of the people who ridicule me though are those who sit and home, moaning about their husbands who have no friends, and watch soap operas. i'd take my quirky life over theirs any day.

actually i had that statement said by someone today; 'but disneys just for kids...' it's very sad that people can be so closed minded.

I fear for children who are allowed to drink beer from foreign countries

 

[jlevis]

I'm 69 and my wife is 63 (don't tell her I told). I hope we never grow-up. We're on an extended trip, mostly business, right now and the the first place we went was Marceline. Disney is a magical place that warms your heart and cures your ills. I feel sorry for people who can't experience that.

 

[forevermickey]

Being a 39 year old male I get similar reactions from people. Its ok though. My wife and I will be taking our first every child free trip and I cant wait. Everyone looked at me funny when I told them the kids were not going this trip.

Everyone has the idea Disney is just all about the rides and getting to see Mickey Mouse. Its way more than that.

Yay for you:sohappy: A friend of mine was just surprised by her husband with a romantic adult trip .. I was jealous

 

[forevermickey]

This does stink It is surprising your parents feel this way since they are the ones that started you on your journey for your love of WDW, also the fact that your Dad is so happy there. But everyone is affected differently. What Disney stands for, from past to present touches you in a way that is different then your family and friends. That's ok... just would be nice if they voiced it in a nicer way. My parents started me off in my Disney journey as well... they don't have the same deep inner love and respect emotionally and mentally as I have but I have not been criticized for it. They just know it is something I am very passionate about.. may not understand why.. but they just go with it.

So I am sure it hurts a little that your friends and family have these comments instead of just a smile and accept that this is your "thing".

As far as getting them any kind of WDW passes for xmas.. I would not.. it's not a gift that they seem to want. I understand you need someone to go with.. so when you are ready for a trip.. just ask if someone would like to go and offer to buy their ticket... buying one ticket for one family member to accompany you is a LOT cheaper that a bunch of season passes for your whole family! Boy do I wish I was part of your family!!

Do you not know anyone that is a Disney Geek as yourself. I find so many people love Disney so much when I mention it... is there not someone you know somewhere you could not plan a vaca. with?

 

[Walt Disney1955]

LOL I have had VERY similar conversations.

I have friends that spend $5K for a couple to spend a week on a beach. I'm like...hmm, I could turn that into two week-long Disney trips, and have some extra left over.

A beach vacation is the most boring thing I could imagine. I like the water, I like living near it, but I just cannot fathom (pun intended) people that pay a week to lay on a beach. All I can think of is skin cancer LOL, and if forced on one I'd be under an umbrella reading all day, wishing I was reading at home.

It's such different strokes for different folks, but I have to say it's nice to know I'm not the only one who feels similarly.

Where would that be to spend $5000 to stay at an all inclusive resort for two? The most we've paid is $2500 for the two of us.

Anyway, I personally also love the all-inclusive resorts in the Caribbean as well. We stayed in Cuba on our honeymoon for a week and let's get one thing straight there is also nothing wrong in my mind with laying on a beach that looks just like the one from the Corona commercial (literally). It is a relaxing vacation and a different type of one. I love those too, we've also done Dominican Republic for a week.

So chalk me up as a person who likes the best of both worlds. I like being pampered with free food and drink round the clock as well as lounging at the beach or the pool....................but the way we do it is that so far in our marriage we haven't done two of those trips in a row because I am always chomping to get back to WDW.

So the way it has gone with us is this:
Cuba - 2008
WDW - 2009
WDW - 2010
Dominican - 2011
...................and the next big trip will hopefully be Anaheim in 2012 if we can swing it

So we balance it out a bit. But believe me, I too feel for the folks that are closed minded and refuse to do the Disney parks experience