I'm the go-to person for virtually anyone that knows me (or is friends with someone who knows me) for WDW advice and planning, etc, as I'm sure so many on this board are as well. To say I'm asked by dozens a year wouldn't be an overstatement.
Over the past year, I've had far more people get frustrated with the amount of planning, researching, and reserving than I've ever encountered over the previous 10 years. By a vast margin. It's not even close.
I've even had people get so frustrated with it all (and hence, with me) that they get overwhelmed and stop asking for help. Then I've had those same people come back from vacation and tell me they regret not following through with me because they were clearly in over their heads and their trip suffered because of it. They just couldn't fathom that all I was suggesting they do be necessary to "keep up with the Joneses" in the park, and ensure they get to experience as much as possible. The conversation I've had with people over the amount of required planning has happened so often, I've actually written a document to explain why it's necessary to do so much, and what it means if you do, and conversely, what it means if you don't... So they can make their own choice on how deep to go. I have that doc at the ready for the moment I'm asked by people if all the planning is really necessary... Which is virtually every time someone comes to me for help.
It's crazy. It's all just absolutely crazy. It used to be that planning for a cruise was over-the-top. Shore excursions, dinner times, mapping out activities during the days on the ship, transfers... All that is a cakewalk compared to what's necessary to make the most of a WDW trip now.