Some folks like to talk in hyperbole. It is a little like baby birds in a nest, or why bears scratch high on trees. They grew up with the notion that louder/higher/bigger = effective. And well...just read any newspaper in 2020 for prime examples. Sadly, it often starts in childhood. The loudest tweeter sometimes gets the most regurgitated worm; so they keep at it.
For me, the classic rides are a big part of the appeal, and those are still there, but the style of my touring has changed dramatically. My trips have always varied: short/long, time of year, hotel, hopping/not hopping, Just WDW/Just US/both/other FL places.
WDW used to be very flexible. If we missed a paper FP, no big deal. We often picked our park by hopping on the first bus that arrived. I booked same-day dining on the way to the park, or we'd just wait for a table. Getting dressed for dinner was relaxing and fun, because we could take our time over a snack and pre-dinner beverage.
With more restrictions, trips got progressively more restricted and less fun. A buzzkill was the trips where getting to an ADR= yelling at everyone that it was time to go NOW! Then we'd arrive and WAIT. A full hour. PAST our ADR time. You know those Snicker's commercials? Multiple times the youngest members of our extended family completely fell asleep. So much for pictures and autographs. The live music helped at many venues, but not always enough. Rushing, just to wait gets progressively more insulting each time it happens.
Some CM's came close to making up for it. The step sisters are especially great at making us laugh. After dinner, the GF pianists sprinkled pixie dust on little girls in taffeta dresses. Live piano music is magic! Storytellers at AKL wove amazing African fairytales around blazing campfires, or else CM's invited all the kids to parade around the lobby playing assorted instruments.
Many WDW magic moments feel spontaneous. It was like winning the lottery, so even after many faded away...it long seemed like they could return at any time. Some bus drivers told jokes, but not all. Some boat captains gave out little trading cards, some didn't. Some trips you got invited to ride in the front of the monorail, some you didn't. That was the magic of it. Every trip some special thing happened, but not the SAME little thing each visit. If you know WDW, you know this about WDW, and wouldn't need to ask. Long time visitors just keep hoping they see Chip frolicking with Dale...
So sure, I still go to WDW, but not at all the way we used to go. To be fair, I've always varied my visits - season, length, where I stay. And to be fair, last summer, we had an amazing housekeeper! I hope she isn't among those who were laid off. Just a super sweet person doing a fantastic job making little bits of WDW magic.