So what's our goal here, societally? Do we want little black girls and little white girls to play with each other, love the same movies, sing the same songs, and not even notice that their skin is different from each other? Because that's what I thought our goal was, and that's what I teach my kids. It doesn't matter what you look like, or what your friends look like, or what your friends' parents look like, because God made all of us special and what matters is who we are as individuals, not what group we belong to. Don't we want our children to be thinking about what dress is the most sparkly, which songs they like to sing in the bathtub, and which animal sidekick is the cutest, rather than the race of the actress playing the fictional mermaid? It's such an awful burden to impose on kids to make them worry about the legacy of slavery or Jim Crow or colonialism, just let them be freaking kids.
You seem to be preaching this kind of neo-segregationism where black girls can only have black role models and black heroes, and it's such a poisonous mindset. "You white girls go over here, this isn't for you." "You black girls go over there, this isn't for you."
Read this back to yourself. You're proud of having written this sentence?
I did read it back to myself for a grammar/spelling check before having posted it. I’m very proud of having written this sentence, given the context. If you’re taking this as me saying your daughters don’t matter in general, then I can see why you asked me this question. I’m not saying that at all, nowhere near it. I’m saying if we’re talking about representation of people of color in film and television, in this case, black representation, then no, white children don’t need to be inserted into the equation because they’re not affected in the same way that black children are. There’s plenty of white representation, and not just in media and entertainment. They’re not going to potentially grow up hating their brown skin and kinky hair (this happens a lot more than you may or may not think). Your white daughters loving that this Ariel is black is great, but it’s not the same as black children being able to see themselves on screen and thinking it’s great. It just isn’t, and this is getting into politics, which I tried to avoid doing yesterday, but I felt I needed to respond to this because you keep inserting your white children into this conversation when it doesn’t concern them.
My societal goal doesn’t include white people at all in this context, unless simply trying to get white people to understand the severity of this issue and just how important it is counts. What I want is for more accurate, positive, and generally more representation of people of color in film and television, including more diverse storylines, not only for the purposes of entertainment, but for the purposes of stopping the development of any potential self-hatred amongst children of color. This is an actual problem faced by actual people, and I know this because I’ve experienced it myself and I’ve spoken to many other people of color, more black people than anything, who’ve also experienced it. I’ve given presentations on the importance of representation in media and my own personal struggles to love myself while growing up black, struggling to love my brown skin, to not want to replace my kinky hair with permanently straightened hair, to not think of myself and other black people as ugly, and to stop the thoughts and desires of wanting to be white instead. Again, I have spoken to MANY other people who experienced the exact same thing, women and men, and the roots of the issue are always the same: lack of representation in media, particularly film and television, being one of a few tokens in a majority white environment, usually school, and lack of parental guidance and assurance regarding loving and appreciating one’s respective race at home. I grew up in the 90s, when these conversations weren’t being had at the level in which they are now, and when representation was sorely lacking. I’m so happy that things have greatly improved and continue to improve. There’s a children’s show called Rise Up Sing Out, and one of the episodes is centered around bonnets, what their purpose is for black hair, and why little black girls wear them. I wish I had something like that to watch as a kid, but I’m happy this generation of black children have it and I hope we see more of it by the time I potentially have children.
So, again, this may not matter to you because you don’t have to experience it, but it does matter. I invite you to educate yourself on the matter more, if you’re interested. I’ve said mostly what I wanted to say, and because I want to be respectful of the rules, I will stop here. I sincerely hope that your daughters enjoy the movie when it releases.