I think a good word be sophisticated. A place that doesn't need to beat you over the head with the experience.
Was going to stay away from this discussion as, right now, I've said all that I feel is worth saying. I think the presentation and the way it was handled speaks volumes and people will read into that whatever they choose based on their preconceived World views and/or knowledge ... BUT ... I like what you said there.
Sophisticated was what the original WDW Shopping Village at LBV was. And while Disney ran many of the shops, there was exactly ONE Disney merchandise shop. But Disney did run all the food and beverage. Over the years, the place got more sophisticated (other words to be used could be classy or adult). The LBV Club was more like a country club dining locale ... and the Empress Lilly featured some of the highest caliber dining in Central Florida well before the Grand Flo was even built with V&As. It was quite profitable and didn't cater to simpy the stroller brigade.
But that's the difference between WDW in the 70s and 80s and 90s and today. WDW has always been a family resort destination, but that never meant every location, every experience had to cater to the likes of a 5-year-old. There have always been bars, spas, restaurants that were places for ADULTS to congregate (akin to adults only areas on DCL).
The biggest thing WDW has lost in the last 10-15 years has been sophistication. Sure you can have all the alcohol you want. Just go to EPCOT at one of the now TWO Food and Wine Fests ... (wait,until someone suggests they make some aspect of them a permanent deal!) Want a club? Go to Atlantic Dance or Jellyrolls or Rix, just make sure you have money for a cab to get you back.
There is a class/sophistication factor that disappears everytime Disney adds carpeting with obvious Mickeys to a supposed deluxe resort ... or takes the theme of a resort and throws it away for rooms dedicated to the Disney BRAND and franchises ... or makes the Castle a place that only 4-year-old Princesses and their Mommies and Daddies and Gammies and Gampies can dine and shop at.
Disney believes it's adding 'class' back to DD, but all it's doing id bringing more of the outside world into its MAGICal realm. I don't really have an issue with it beyond the fact that yet again folks don't travel to WDW for DD (unless they're locals). There are four parks that need work, that have also lost that sophistication ... that class ... they once had.
I bet George Kalogridis can tell you all about how classy The Top of the World was and The Gulf Coast Room and how they weren't places for kids (well, except for those amazing Sunday Brunches that I used to go to as a kid, no characters included) ... if someone could actually find him.