I’m so sorry for both of you- and all the DCP who were so excited to get that acceptance! Grieve however you want, don’t let anyone EVER tell you you don’t have the right to feel how you feel or belittle your feelings by telling you how things could be worse and to be grateful for what you have. You are feeling a real loss whether others acknowledge that or not. My oldest lost her senior college year too. And my middle kid a high school senior lost every fun part of being a senior- prom, graduation day, all the senior week fun things etc. I hope things work out for you both and somehow you are able to experience the DCP.
Sounds like sour grapes here- if you haven’t done the program you actually have ZERO-ZERO! idea of what happens or how hard the kids work. Let me repeat- ZERO. Both my husband and I did a DCP back in the 90’s and our oldest has done two- Accepted for her third this fall but she got a great opportunity for grad school that she doing instead. And they haven’t done campus presentations in a long time. It’s a very challenging customer service job - I’ve worked theme parks, amusement parks and retail while in high school and college. Working with the public - especially entitled DW guests- is not easy, and a valuable people skill that WILL carry with them.
I agree. Again those who dismiss obviously don’t have that on their resume. Pretty sure my daughter got an internship in her field last summer due to the DCP (her mentor even said something about it during her internship) - and her DCPs were custodial and Attractions, her field of study is Geology. Early in my career it also came up with every interview (we moved an average 3-5 years up until this house we e been in for 10 years- yes I’m old lol)