flynnibus
Premium Member
If you say you don’t like a particular film, and we ask why not, are you seeing that as a challenge? I would truly hope not.
And why does the introspective only appear if someone expresses a dislike or disinterest? Why is favor embraced, but disinterest needs dissection?
People did outline their feelings - but when your followup is disbelief and leading enuendo like ‘there must be more…’ - that is not conversational, that is leading with accusations.
And if you explain why not and your explanation raises more questions and we ask those questions, are you seeing that as a challenge? To me, these are just part of conversation about films
Eventually in any subjective topic you hit a floor and it’s simply preference. Why do you like chocolate or vanilla? When the response keeps coming back with ‘there must be something more…’ you are no longer inquisitive but rather challenging the person’s assertion.
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And if your responses to these questions come across as vaguely similar to something bad people might say, would you prefer we not say so? Is that what you mean by challenge?
I would tell you if you are conversing with someone you should stick to what they have shown themselves and what is known between you rather than act biased because of other interactions you may have had with others. That’s common decency.